When your eyes moves away

Neglect is not always brutal.Sometimes merely failing to meet the child's needs for love and interaction can mean paronormal development.

When you have a child as a infant or toddle,you need to talk to them,give them names of things,tell them how things work,And this way the child stars imitating and that is how language developed.If a child is neglected,it's not always the case that they don't get fed,they don't get changed,they don't get bathed,it's very often the case of  more a social neglect or personal neglect where the child doesn't get enough individual or personal attention from their parents or care giver.That can give the rise to fellings of abandonment,feelings of being alone in world in the heart of this child.

A child can be put in front of a TV,​that keeps him caught and entertainment.Give him something to do without talking and movement.There is no way child interact.It doesn't require any verbal expression ,just in front of a TV set.But the interaction of making language meaningful as a tool for him to manipulate the enviroment that was not created.

孤儿院里的孩子之所已与常人不同，因为他们总是被要求到点吃饭，到点洗澡，到点换尿不湿，想表达自己的需求，但是因为人太多，保育员不可能顾及到每个人，渐渐他变得冷漠，不说话。

有时候同情并不是一件好事，反而会觉得你是在歧视我。就像《独家记忆》里，薛桐和宋琪琪为了保研名额的那件事，若不是薛桐后来奋力一跑，宋琪琪永远都会觉得薛桐是在施舍她。