背叛与忠诚‖一行禅师

背叛与忠诚

哪里有背叛，哪里就有忠诚。每个人都有背叛的种子和忠诚的种子。两个人之间的任何情况都不是一个人的责任。如果你正在恋爱，你可以每天在你自己和你的伴侣身上浇灌忠诚的种子。你说话、看东西和行动的方式都可以充满同情和慈爱。当一个人富有同情心时，人们自然会喜欢坐到他身边，就像人们喜欢坐在树荫下放松一样。如果我们能保持新鲜感、同情心、爱心和耐心，我们就能帮助改变我们的关系并且改变他人。

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BETRAYAL AND FAITHFULNESS

Where there is betrayal, there is also faithfulness. Everyone has both the seed of betrayal and the seed of faithfulness. No situation between two people is ever just one person’s responsibility. If you are in a relationship, you can water the seed of faithfulness in yourself and in your partner every day. The way you speak, look, and act can be full of compassion and loving kindness. When someone is compassionate, people naturally like to come and sit close to them, the way people like to sit and relax at the foot of a big, shady tree. If we can stay fresh, compassionate, loving, and patient, we can help transform our relationship and the other person.

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