自嗨陷阱

写文章，是一种交流，而不是表达。比如，你现在在看我的文章，就好像是，我在与你交流。如果，我一直在自嗨，你肯定会感到反感，现在大家的注意力这么稀缺，你一定会果断的按下返回键。那怎么样避免自嗨陷阱呢？

首先想清楚，你的文章是写给谁看的？要根据读者的特点，使用他们能听懂的语言。如果涉及到专业术语，必须要做好解释。

多用“你”，少用“我”。你在写作的时候，就假设你的对面坐着一个人，然后你跟他说话，你得时刻照顾对方的感受。在适当的时候使用“你说呢”，“你认为呢”， “你说是吧”等句型，能拉近与对方的距离，使对方产生思考。

（以下文字，纯属自high，请忽略。）

Writing an article is a conmunication, not an  expression. For example, you are reading my article now. It is as if I was talking to you. If I have been arrogant, you will definitely  feel disgusted. Now that everyone's  attention is so scarce, you will definitely  press the back button decisively. How can you avoid the trap of self-destruction?

First of all, think clearly, who is your reader? According to the characteristics of  readers, you can use language they can  understand. If it comes to technical terms, it must be explained.

Use "you" more often and "I" less. When you are writing, it is assumed that you are sitting opposite a person, and then you talk to him. You have to take care of the other person's feelings. When appropriate, use phrases  such as “how do you say it”,  “how do you think it”to get closer to each other and make the other person think.