Fear has a very concrete power of keeping us from doing and saying the things that are our purpose.
恐惧是一股非常具体的力量，会阻止我们说出和践行我们真正的目的
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But I realize comfort is overrated. Because being quiet is comfortable. Keeping things the way they've been is comfortable.
但我意识到，舒适感其实被高估了。因为沉默是最舒适的。不去改变才是舒适的
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And all comfort has done is maintain the status quo. So we've got to get comfortable with being uncomfortable by speaking these hard truths when they're necessary.
但是舒适感能带给我们的只有维护现状而己。所以我们应该通过在必要的时候说出严峻的现实来学会走出自己的舒适区
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When it's time to say these hard things, I ask myself three things. One: Did you mean it? Two: Can you defend it? Three: Did you say it with love?
当我感到有些事情让我难以启齿的时候，我会问自己三个问题，第一：你是认真的吗？第二：你可以为它辦护吗？第三：你是为爱发声吗？
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If the answer is yes to all three, I say it and let the chips fall. That's important. That checkpoint with myself always tells me, "Yes, you're supposed to do this."
如果这三个问题的答案都是肯定的，我就会不计后果地说出来。
那很重要。
这三个问题始终给予我肯定的力量
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