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安东尼：This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to hide.. If two people can see each other in full view with complete acceptance, they can build a successful friendship from this. I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful friendship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself.

安东尼：All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for. ..Yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful.... even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart.

安东尼：Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad may come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience, and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love.

我：关于爱，我想先学会好好爱自己。只有爱自己了，才会用心去热爱生活。至于爱情，我认为是让双方变得更美好的，我目前还没有让别人变得更美好的能力。

安东尼：It's a hard thing to do a scary thing, but very much worth it This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust

安东尼：That's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow.

安东尼：For everyone there is someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life.Not expecting your partner to think and react to things the way you do. Resolving any conflict in your friendship depends on this.

我：不是我没有冒险精神，我也没有把我的心门关上。而是我真心的希望一份爱它需要时间沉淀，同时是建立在双方条件相差不大的基础上。我不能因为自身的痛苦或者落魄而去找一个人来爱，来为我疗伤。那是对他不公平的。就如我们，其实我们彼此了解的并不深。我知道你很优秀，但我却没有你想像的那么美好...