When you say:
I must do some thing, Or I have to do something.
You should be think.
Are you really, really "must" or "have to".
Have to, It means I have no choice.
But, I want to tell you,
Whenever at any time , You have the right of choice.
When you say , I had to work.
You give up your option right.
You can say, I choose my work, I love it.
Or, I choose my work, Although I don't very like it, But this is my choice.
Because it's my choice, So I can change it.
Because it's my choice, So I can get something from it, Like much money, Or personal growth, Or others.
我们经常喜欢说我 必须 干什么，我 不得不干什么。
当你使用 必须和不得不 的时候。
你要小心，你已经放弃了你的，选择的权利。
在任何时候你都有自己选择的权利。
比如说，当你说我不得不工作的时候。
你已经放弃了工作，是你自己选择的这种权利。
你工作肯定不开心。
你可以说，我选择了我的工作，我热爱它。
或者说，
我选择了我的工作，虽然我都并不是多么喜欢它，但我能从中得到很多东西。
比如工资很高，或者我能够得到成长，或者其他的什么东西。
自己的选择，自己会开心。
所以别忘了。
任何时候你都有选择权。
Thank you for your reading.
Good luck.
See you.
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