你总会感觉到不被别人重视吗
Are you one of those people who is always not taken seriously?
你的朋友总是不尊重你，甚至你的家人也时常取笑你。
Your friends constantly disrespect you and your family still consider you a little kid.
当人们不把你当回事的时候，确实很让人沮丧。
It's really frustrating when people make fun of you and don't realy take you seriously .
它会损害你的自尊心，摧毁你的信心，让你觉得自己很可怜。
It damages your self-esteem crushes your confidence and makes you feel miserable.
(这个世界就是你的心理的折射）
——别人怎么对待你，主要取决于你的行为，以及你如何向他人展示自己。
It mostly depends on your actions,on how you behave and how you present yourself to others.
那么如何让他人更尊重你更认真地对待自己呢？
How can let anyone respect you and take you much more seriously.
1、通过创造稀缺价值
Create value through scarcity.
不要指望和朋友一天24小时呆在一起，还能期望被尊重和被认真对待。
Don't expect to be respected and taken much more seriously when you are 24/7 with your friends
这是普遍的心理因素——当你与人相处一段时间后，人们对你的存在开始显得正常，人们不再尊重你且感觉自在。
It's all about psychology,
It's normal that after spending certain time with people ,your presence start seeming normal and people
feel comfortable disrespecting you
因此，——创造稀缺时间——消失一段时间，忙于其它事情，让别人想念你。
Disappear for a while,get busy with other things,let the people miss you .
让他们想到有你应该在身旁时，你却不在
Let them feel that they want you to be around but you are not there.
这样，一旦你再次来到他们的身旁，他们会更加感激你的存在。
So that once you are back again,they will appreciate your presence more.
2、Protect your reputation 保护你的声誉
你良好的声誉，会让人们更认真地对待你。
Your reputation is what will push people to take you seriously .
你长期为自己创造的形象，将很大程度上决定了你是否会受到尊重
That image that you create about yourself overtime ,is mostly what will determine whether you will be
respected or not .
如果你都不认真对待自己，那如何让别人认真对待你？
If you don't take yourself seriously ,why should others?
——摘自：一点英语
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