你累的时候,谁会心疼你?
Who will love you when you are tired?
你认识的人很多,但真的会心疼你的人有多少?
You know a lot of people, but how many people will really love you?
年少时,觉得认识的人越多,往后的路越好走。真的长大了,遇到事了,发现身边真的心疼自己,会帮助自己的人寥寥无几。
When I was young, I thought that the more people I knew, the easier the road would be. When I really grow up, when something happens to me, I find that there are very few people around me who really love me and help me.
你受了多少的委屈,吃了多少苦,你也只会把笑容挂在脸上,假装什么事都没发生过那样快乐的活着。你越来越习惯伪装自己,习惯把所有的忧伤都往心里放。因为你很清楚,你累的时候,没有多少人会心疼你。
How much grievances you have suffered and how much suffering you have suffered, you will only put a smile on your face and pretend that nothing has happened and live so happily. You are more and more used to camouflage yourself and take all your sadness to heart. Because you know very well that when you are tired, not many people will love you.
你也许觉得世界那么大,总有人能与你感同身受,懂得你所有的苦与累。只是,并不是所有人都那么幸运的能够遇到这样的人。
You may feel that the world is so big that there is always someone who can empathize with you and understand all your bitterness and tiredness. However, not everyone is so lucky to meet such a person.
我们也曾单纯的觉得只要自己对别人足够好,懂得心疼别人,便一定能够得到别人对自己的关心,可生活总是爱开玩笑,有太多时候,我们都只能独自去面对生活里的磨难。没有一个人能一直的帮助自己,没有人能一直在自己的身边。
We have simply felt that as long as we are good enough to others and know how to care for others, we will certainly be able to get the care of others, but life is always a joke, there are too many times, we can only face the tribulations of life alone. No one can always help ourselves, no one can always be by our side.
有人说,如果没有那么多的希望,或者就不会有那么多的失望。想来也是如此。
Some people say that if there is not so much hope, or there will not be so much disappointment.I guess so.
有时,你对所有人都很好,却偏偏没有几个会对你好,就像一直都为别人着想的人,总是没有几个人会为他着想一样。
Sometimes, you are nice to everyone, but few will be nice to you, just as few people who are always thinking of others will think of him.
你对别人越好,别人越是不懂得感恩。当你所有的付出,在别人的心中变得理所当然时,你的付出就毫无意义。你所期望的那一切也都会落空。
The nicer you are to others, the less grateful they will be. When all your giving becomes taken for granted in the hearts of others, your giving is meaningless. Everything you expected will come to nothing
你不必事事都为别人想,也不必自己哪里不够好。其实,人都应该努力的爱自己,哪怕你有想爱的人,你也得好好的爱自己才能更好的爱别人。不要盲目的付出,不要认为喜欢一个人就把自己全部都搭上去。
You don't have to think of others in everything, and you don't have to be good enough. In fact, people should try their best to love themselves, even if you have someone you want to love, you have to love yourself in order to love others better. Don't pay blindly, don't think that if you like someone, you'll put yourself all on it.
你做了多少,你累不累,有人关心过吗?也许,你用心准备的一切,最终不过是感动了自己,而在别人那里只是很随意的一件事。如果早知道是这样的结果,或者你也不会随便的付出了吧!
How much you have done, whether you are tired or not, has anyone ever cared about it? Perhaps, everything you prepare carefully, in the end, just move yourself, and in others there is just a very casual thing. If you had known it was such a result, maybe you wouldn't have paid it casually.
那些得不到回应的感情,别继续为难着自己,不用再去卖力的讨好别人,得不到回应的所有事,你要懂得适可而止。
For those feelings that don't get a response, don't continue to embarrass yourself, you don't have to work hard to please others, and you have to know that enough is enough for everything that doesn't get a response.
谁的心都不是钢铁做的,你也不例外。你也会有难过想哭的事,你也会有累得走不动的时候,你何尝没有想过停一停好好的休息一下呢!你付出那么多,何尝不是希望在自己累的时候,身边有个心疼自己的人。
No one's heart is made of steel, and you are no exception. You will also feel sad and want to cry, and there will be times when you are too tired to walk. Haven't you ever thought of stopping and having a good rest? You pay so much, don't you want to have a person who loves you when you are tired?
若没有,就不必继续辛苦着自己、勉强着别人。
If not, you don't have to continue to work hard on yourself and force others.
往后的日子,愿你能好好的生活,不必为了多么宏伟的目标,就为这些年你亏欠的自己。
In the days to come, may you have a good life, and you don't have to have any grand goals for what you owe to yourself over the years.
你真的没有那么坚强,只不过为了不让身边的人担心,假装自己有能力扛起一切罢了。其实,你的心里承受了多少,你都清楚。
You are really not that strong, just to not let the people around you worry, pretend that you have the ability to carry everything. In fact, you know how much you have endured in your heart.
所以,你真的不必去压抑着自己了,明知道自己的心也很累,还要硬撑着去关心别人过得怎么样。So, you really don't have to suppress yourself. Knowing that your heart is also very tired, you have to hold on to care about how others are doing.
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