why do we lose friends？

Why do we lose our friends sometimes?

Everyone has your own friends. We are not alone in the world. But what does ‘friend‘ mean to you ?

Somebody says A friend in need is a friend in deed. Someone says A friend is never known till a man has need. But I think A friend is a person who can share your sorrow and happiness. He can fix you or be crazy with you. He can manage to be your sun when you are in the darkness. He knows you well and wakes you up when you are confused.

In our lives, a faithful friend is hard to find. And a friend is easier to lose. Why? Because we are extremely close to each other. Sometimes we didn’t care what you care about. We just do some tiny things to break our friendship day by day. Sounds terrible! That’s what we do right now. We leave our kindness to the strangers and lose temper in front of our friends. Because we think he can bear us. That’s totally not true. Eventually you will get alone.

So how do we treat our friends well? Show them your heart. Not push them away. We need care about their feelings. We need control our temper. We need do something what we can do for them. We need to have a discussion, a meal or something else together. We need to apologize for our faults. We need to respect their choices. We need to feel comfortable with them. But if you want to give some advice to your friends, please say it directly or indirectly depends on their features.

Please remember: a friend is not like your parents. Everyone has different backgrounds, different education, different characters. So don’t say something like because of the friendship, I told you so. That’s not fair. That is only your own experience. You can’t just put it on your friends’ condition. We all need time to grow and experience. If we don’t fall down once, we will never know how badly it hurts. So give them room and time. Finally maybe they will agree with you.

Someone thinks a friend is the opposite of the love. Because it takes a lot of spare time to get together. And maybe you will get bad habits from your friends. That’s not wrong. We need choose what kind of person we will make. A bad friend can drag you to the hell. A good friend can push you to be a better person even if it’s a hard road for you.

‘Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get.” Try to be a kind person not means you don’t fight against. You need to protect yourself and then don’t hurt the others ’feelings. You will find what you want. You will not be alone during the journey. Don’t look down on yourself. Don’t look down on the others. Everyone will make mistakes. Just fix it and make it right. Don’t lose faith on humanity. You will find something more valuable. Let me prove it!