Many people complain that they don’t have friends around them.
They can’t get support from people.
It’s not that there is no human next to them.
On the contrary,
Any place has lots of humans around.
If you feel lonely,
Because you use the wrong period to meet friends.
I am not an extroverted guy.
Let me contact someone first.
You better kill me first.
I usually don’t contact friends for a long time.
Years and even decades.
But I do miss these guys deep in my heart.
I feel lonely even though I have lots of friends waiting for me to contact them first.
It’s tough for me.
I am afraid of being refused by friends, even good ones.
How can we change these awkward knots?
Change the default status.
In the past, your two guys' meeting default is no contact.
Need someone to contact first, which is a hard thing.
In the future, we can change the default into meeting in the right period.
Every two days, one week, one month, one year even five years.
You can define your friends at a different level close to you.
Who you spent time talking to define who you are.
And you can succeed or fail.
Be patient, friends know the habit between your two guys.
It’s the weekend or night.
Friends habits need patient focus.
If you don’t contact one over years, you lose this guy.
Even a far relationship, you can set the right period.
Classmates meeting each 2 years is acceptable.
The wrong behavior is spending too much time on one or two guys.
This gives you a high risk of losing support.
Make your friendship not balanced.
It’s dangerous.
Two or three people meet too much.
It makes you feel no fresh air nor new activities.
If you use too much effort, you will suddenly lose guys one day.
Make the right relationship meeting schedule.
It can support you doing anything.
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