寂静老师说:“如果没有共同的精神世界,夫妻只是挂在一起的两块腊肉。”
Silence teacher said: "if there is no common spiritual world, husband and wife are just two pieces of bacon hanging together."
真正的婚姻不是两块腊肉挂在一起,他们中间要构成第三个共同的精神世界,这才真正是婚姻的纽带、婚姻的保障,也算是婚姻幸福之处!
Real marriage is not two pieces of bacon hanging together, they have to form a third common spiritual world, this is really the bond of marriage, the protection of marriage, but also the happiness of marriage!
只有建立好这个精神世界,丰富共同的精神世界,夫妻才会越来越恩爱。
Only by establishing this spiritual world and enriching the common spiritual world can couples love each other more and more.
好的婚姻,不是相互拯救,而是彼此成就。
A good marriage is not about saving each other, but about achieving each other.
婚姻中最美好的境界,莫过于彼此互相尊重、互相欣赏,优势互补。虽然各有不同的兴趣,却有着高度契合的灵魂追求。
The best thing in marriage is mutual respect, mutual appreciation, and complementary strengths. Although each has different interests, they have a highly compatible pursuit of the soul.
正如杨澜说的:“婚姻最坚韧的纽带不是孩子,不是金钱,而是精神上的共同成长。”
As Yang Lan said: "the toughest bond of marriage is not children, not money, but spiritual common growth."
夫妻只有齐心协力一起改变,共同成长,相互扶持,才会构建幸福的家庭。
Only when couples work together to change, grow together, and support each other, can they build a happy family.
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