Day two

Properly handled,parent-child relationship will leave neither of them the sense of loss.

把亲情放在合适的位置，双方都不致失落。

It is periodical happyness tohave  interaction with our children when stepping into middle ages.

人到中年，亲情的互动，是阶段性的幸福。

However ,we shoule not attach too serious significance to it,nor.should we consider it unimportant at all.

不要赋予它太严肃的意义，我不要把它看的无足轻重。

God does not allow us to remember the selfless deep love for all their life,for which would hinder their growth,nor does he allow us to remember our sacrifice for them either,for which would entrap us into the miserable situation of excepting rewards.

上帝不允许孩子永远记住父母入骨的爱，那将使他们无法完成成长;也不允许父母永远记住自己对儿女所作的牺牲，那将使老人陷入期待回报的自怜。

And in fact ,what we have given to our children has already been paid back in their childhood by giving us a big hug or telling us with their baby-talk like “i lovo you so much,Mummy”!and "Daddy,i gonna marry a good man like you!"Yes, all of these are their love in return.

而且，事情上，孩子们早已用儿语，用拥抱，用一声"妈妈，我好爱你啊！"“一声爸爸，我要嫁一个像你这样的好丈夫！”完全回报了，是的，完全回报了。