You can learn to surf.

You can’t stop the waves but you can learn to surf.

It’s not surprising that people who find themselves in a difficult situation have a wild fear for their future. However panic could not  help you. It just can cloud your judgement and make you lose the rhythm of living. Therefore the first thing you should do is to calm down.

The strategy of living you chose determines how much happy you will be. In common life, it’s better to keep calm. In this case you will get the opportunity to enjoy your happiness as much as possible and maximize it. If life hits you, it’s better to fight against it.

Despair is your most dangerous enemy. Don’t give up hope of future. There are many stories of people who win the terrible fate years after their miserable experience. Human potential is endless. The main thing is to keep calm and hope for the best.

So when you are struggling in a tough situation, you should realize that you can’t stop it, but you can change it or defeat it. Just always keep calm, positive and hope!