How to Know If You've Found the 

When dating someone new, the feelings you experience as you get to know each other can be incredibly exciting. And once you're out of the "honeymoon phase," the next stage of your relationship can be just as rewarding—the time to build a deeper bond grounded in trust and genuine love.
Here are five key markers that can help you decide if you're with your lifelong match.

1. You share the same or complementary values.
2. You handle conflict respectfully and constructively.
3. You accept them for who they are—and vice versa.
4. You look forward to sharing and spending time with them.
5. You can envision a life with them.

当你和新对象交往时，随着你们互现了解彼此，你会感觉极其兴奋。一旦你们走出了“蜜月期”，你们关系的下一阶段也可以是非常有价值的：在信任和真爱的基础上建立更深的关系。
这有五个关键特征可以帮助你决定你是否遇到了可以陪伴你一生的人。

1. 你們的价值观相同或相辅相成。
2. 你們以尊重彼此而且具有建设性的方法处理分歧。
3. 你们接受了真实的彼此，包括缺点。
4. 你期望分享和与他们度过时光。
5. 你可以想象和他们一起的生活。

三觀基本一致，
有包容心，
還要接受對方缺點，
欣賞對方，
願意攜手開創未來。。。
有點難。

確認過眼神，
也不一定是遇到了對的人。