l was thinking about writing an article about unfaithful marriages in this morning, because one of my friend told me his friend who was a young mom and had a daughter but the third wheel destroyed her life was going to divorce, and the sex scandal of Li Xiaolu who married but stayed out at Pgone's house for one whole night had been the headline news these days.
Nowadays, celebrities and bigwigs always attracted our eyes, and we might talk about them in our spare time. And especially, the public paid more concentration on their affairs. Millions of people concerned about this, and there was a war of argument between the public online, a host of people thought that they had to divorce, and most of them were filled with a complex feeling and they were thinking the truth was covered, some sentimental guys might give the comment which said l wouldn't believe love any more.
We all knew that Li and her husband Jia Nailiang had been a model couple in the showbiz since they married. And the entertainment circle always told us dramatic news, a lot of movie stars and famous singers divorced because of the errant husband or wife. And these scandals finally led most of them downfall, people in the fantastic stories were up and down, and the readers always touched by the unexpected plot.
We all believed true love, and human beings created a plenty of characters who experienced hardship like betrayal, failure, and unjust treatment, but finally they met the true love. However, the fairy tales didn't spread the happy ending in the reality.
If you followed and read the microblogs of Jia and Li, if you watched their programs, soap operas and interviews, you might know how sweet they are, and you might be moved by their love, and we might also know how hard the way was. l really felt pity because they created a beautiful story of ture love, and in this marriage we could know Jia loved Li deeply but his love was lowly, as Zhang Ailing said, "Like a person, will humble to the dest, then flower leaves come."
l still didn't want to believe the truth, maybe there's nothing between Li and Pgone, but we didn't have any evidence, because the news attached to Li and Pgone clearly. We knew Li and Jia had a cute daughter who was famous for the hot sentence: "We are pretty white." So if they divorced, their daughter could change her life and the hurts would never die.
Finally l didn't write the article, because l didn't know the truth and l didn't want to write any words about something unknown. l suddenly realized that the life of stars were really not easy, maybe life was not easy for everyone, because it didn't give us any chance to take a breath.
When we talked about the affairs of our friend, l asked the reasons, and there was always an answer that was the third person. And it was not fresh things to hear about someone deviced in our daily life. It seemed that there would be more people made the same mistakes when the main media reported some negative news. When the media reported that a couple divorced, and then there were many followers.
Different person might have different choice, l couldn't tell which one was right. Because there were only two choices, and even worse, both of them were wrong, what could we do was just choosing a better one from them. How terrible! Wen Zhang betrayed, Ma Yili chosed to forgive, Lin Dan betrayed, Xie Xingfang chosed to forgive; Chen Sicheng betrayed, Tong Liya chosed to forgive; Feng Xiaogang betrayed, Xu Fan chosed to forgive. Ma Rong betrayed, Wang Baoqiang chosed divorce; Bai Baihe betrayed, Chen Yufan chosed divorce; Yi Nengjing betrayed, Harlem chose divorce. lf Li Xiaolu betrayed, what would Jia Nailiang do?
That might be a tragedy of Jia and Li, we knew them when they brought us happiness or masterpieces, but we read the juicy gossips of their private life as an entertainment. I didn't know how to type the right words for this affair, and l could just write the words down on my dairy. I believed that everything would be OK, all should be well, and Jack would have Jill.
Day29写给生活&About Unfaithful Love
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