自从爷爷从遵义回湖南后,好久没写天健成长日记了。这次爷爷专程赶来遵义为我庆祝周岁。我的生日是按公历记的,今天是2019年11月27日,是我周岁生日。爸爸妈妈为我订了生日蛋糕,中午在小容璟订了生日宴会。老爷爷,爷爷,二姨奶奶,舅爷爷,小姨奶奶发了生日红包,伍弦婶婶和喻赞姑姑也发了红包。
从我出生到周岁,一路健康成长,花费了爸爸妈妈不少的心血,特别是妈妈是个完美主义者,什么都要做到精致,因此很辛苦。其实没有必要认真,我的许多小伙伴,他们爸爸妈妈带得就粗糙得多,也一样长大了。爸爸在工作之余也为我付出了不少,只要在家,就为我服务,抱我,跟我玩,喂我饭,给我穿衣,换尿片,都做。我没有了奶奶,爷爷带了我半年,因为要赚钱贴补家用,也回湖南工作去了。所以只有爸爸妈妈带我,比较而言,没有老人帮忙,爸爸妈妈带我更辛苦些。但爷爷说,辛苦点很值,亲子抚养比隔代带养更好。同时,我长得很好,身体健康,性格开朗,特别爱笑,爷爷说我是阳光小子。爷爷在湖南,一个人很孤独,也很想我,每天要妈妈发视频给他,妈妈发的都是我活泼可爱好动欢笑的场景,这些视频给爷爷以慰籍。爷爷爱我笑,并以此心慰。也欣赏我的哭,说我的哭与其他小孩不同,挺有个性。他研究我的哭声,说不是那种一般小孩的空洞的哭,带有很强的目的和诉求。还说,我的“呀呀呀”的那种哭声像京剧中张飞窦尔敦黑脸武生的唱腔。这样的感受和评价明显带有主观感情色彩,有点可笑。





































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