三天的峰会之旅，听到很多好演讲，总结下来，好演讲具备三个特点。
第一是幽默，能够让你开怀大笑，哪怕是看了第二遍还很好笑。
第二是真诚，让你相信这是真实的，愿意听，虽然有些桥段需要高度浓缩笑点，未必是真实发生的。
本次英文冠军演讲《Beat》在他爸打他那下，我第二遍听仍然感到心痛想哭，这是演讲者真诚演绎把我带入那个场景受到感染的魅力。
我曾经模仿过世界冠军演讲，《power of words》，当我一遍一遍地讲述Nassir的故事的时候，我一遍一遍地掉眼泪，这件事情并没有发生在我的身上，但是我就可以感同身受Nassir的悲惨，他因为被他最爱的人-他的父亲忽略，不断证明自己为了得到父亲的认可，最终因为父亲一句我很忙而彻底垮了。这个故事让我理解原来打骂并不是最悲惨的被忽略才是。当我用这个故事，作为部门会议的开场安全时刻，（演讲也是可以用在工作场景中的），我用这个故事讲语言的力量，我们在说话的时候要思考我们说出的话给对方带来的影响，我希望做一个鼓励型激励型的演讲者，同事甚至是下属。
真诚与真实不是相同的，就像有些伟大的艺术作品（电影，小说），它很感染人，但它不一定在这世界上真实发生，但是人性是相通的。真诚是打通人性相通的那个部分的密钥。
这世界上谁最真诚的，当然是骗子了，所以第三条非常重要，那就是是价值。骗子希望从你身上获得价值，你失去了价值，这是一个零和或者是负和游戏。而演讲者是给你价值，这是一个正和游戏。
演讲者的主题思想给你触动，激励你改变。对于爱吼叫的导师，让他吼，你会明白他对你的改变。不吼不叫是好但不是金科律令。
这部分甚至让你掉眼泪。
好的演讲的要素是幽默，真诚，有价值。
好演讲就是能让你开心，相信，改变。
即兴戏剧工作坊也让我印象深刻，是意识里接受现状，是共同创造。
想想出来开峰会的意义是什么？是寻找那些能够给予你正面影响的人，并把这些影响传递给他人，希望能给他人带来正面影响。
本次中文冠军《假如我有头发》极其幽默地呈现了青年秃发的烦恼，植了头发想增高，增了高想割双眼皮，却发现别人欣赏的是他的才华！
我也长久对自己的颜值极度不自信，只是没有采取行动罢了。其实觉得自己不够好是无尽的坑，不是在错误的道路上改变，而是接纳、欣赏、才能thrill（欢呼雀跃？）。
比赛部分
International speech contest
Say yes to the pain first and get to the win-win situations.
Let it go：
Start with a dream in death bench.
Am I still alive? Am I in love? Do I make a difference?
Can you make a difference?
Busy glasses
I am busy as excuse, Face the fear and get rid of the invisible busy glasses.
Beat: beat by a teach, father, follow the music, move your feet and dance to/with the beat with your heartbeat, dance with the beat.
Escape from the beat or dance with the beat!
Beat beat!
Let the lion roar
Rise above
Give love others rise above.
Choice to your heart
A Valuable lesson: it’s ok, you will learn from your mistakes.
Born this way
Evaluation
1. Start with Only you, end with only you.
Good part: Authentic and naturally exaggerated, to be what you want to be
Improvement: Control microphone, add more value to the audience
2. Improvement 4S: Speech title, slow down, story (what you want to be later), sing to end to echo your sing in the beginning.
Use "Brain wash" instead of "be what you want to be" as the title. Give the message too early. That would create suspense, don't be predictable.
Demo speech: Feel the fear, do it anyway
Struggle in wearing Han fu or not.
Fear negative comments from others and myself?
(One improvement I can think of is : too many questions in a row.)
1. Relate to you
I have a white suit and wait for ten years to wear it.
Title: give me messages to early, fear
Transformation:
Conclusion: Face and rise. As a speaker, it's our duty to call for action.
2. Win my heart, you are Liu Yifei in my eye.
Show your fear, Swing,
Show your name card in the end
3. Stage design, title: beautiful clothes
4. Not inspiring and empowering at all
5. Sensitive to the audience on microphone, feel the trophy
Jump from the chair to demo the jump into the water. (Maybe too dangerous for a girl in Han Fu - Costume)
6. Where are you? Have others said the same thing?
Have you ever in a row
Evaluation is to strengthen the good part and make it great and better.
Have in your heart first and speak out.
峰会晚上思考什么演讲是一个好的演讲：
1. 让观众笑(这部分往往需要可以设计笑点)，给观众深思（这部分要是自己认同的价值观）-engage your audience
刻意设计的！！！
2. 真实，发自内心
因为所以不是故事，但加上但是就成了故事，故事转折部分需要细节，这是最有价值和给人启示的部分
3. valuable message
比如专注
让我开怀大笑，让我相信，让我改变。
中文比赛
1. 爱你孤身走暗巷-代沟
对暗号
妈妈呢？
挖呀挖
熬夜看电视剧，找共同点话题
连接起来
2. 秘笈
只有他们想改变，改变才能发生
这些你都改变了吗？
你当时说的话正好和他的心意相通
只要你想改变，改变就会发生
3. 天才
You are genius
让孩子爱上台
优秀的学生
全国第一名的老师
相信自己的力量：力所能及的范围内，但未曾涉及的领域
不是因为你是天才你才站上这个舞台，是因为你站上这个舞台，你就是天才
4. 嗯
这是美国人讲中文，非常好笑。
嘲笑自己国家的人：固步自封，怀疑的眼神看来自外地的人
来到中国，菜场阿姨问月收入，会不会成为好女婿
我成了外地人（当老外说他是外地人的时候很幽默）
对中餐从怀疑到慢慢地接纳，到喜欢，成为一头“麻辣牛”。
克服怀疑，融合
我愿意试一试
5. 如果我有头发
最亮（靓）的仔，但我不想做人肉闪光灯
好有文采哦
我那该死的让人无法抗拒的魅力
6.幸福在哪里
针灸 扎（渣）男-谐音哏无处不在
得了两个亿 情场失意 赌场失意（商场失意，职场失意）
有人说幸福是比出来的
越比落差越大，当你穿袄的时候，别人穿貂，当你有馒头吃的时候，别人有肉包，糯米饭。
老爸大病初愈做面汤，那一起床就闻到熟悉的香味，是幸福。
只要珍惜当下，幸福就在身边
rap ending
幽默部分
实在不行，就让俱乐部死掉吧（动作和语气特别搞笑）
头马的第一次会议：周五晚上被单身男士邀约，忐忑地推开一扇门，结果误入头马会议，开始被洗脑，发现对着镜子自言自语，看起来神经质的同事原来是在练演讲。
丈夫突然对妻子表达爱时妻子的反应：你还好吧？对我有什么需求？外面有人了？now our love is two-way street.
留守老人：《狂飙》，啥都好，就是没结婚。
看起来娘娘腔，有了女朋友，强调是Girl-Friend（防止大家误会是gay）。
Keynote
A community for humanity
1. Beyond executive to visionary.
Shaping a clear purpose that resonates with our members.
When the economy is not good, it's the best time to innovate.
My takeaway: One person example is powerful: don’t know what to say, just listen. A person story with full tears is touching. (记得之前同事分享的：A picture of a dead infant is powerful to show the needs for accepting refugees)
Power of purpose (find your why)
What makes you stay in TM for more than 10 years?
Connection, great people, fun and friends, curiosity； once a TM, always TM； believe in the power of persistence, connection and inspiration.
Change the world, give back, serve the people.
Transfer myself and improve myself.
Keep recharging myself.
Practice English, comfortable and be myself.
Help people around me to become a better person.
2. Beyond followers to architects
Can TM help companies to be more inclusive?
Showcase in Townhall
Add value to the members.
3. Beyond directors to the catalyst
Picture of success
Engaging people to collaborate in an open and empowered atmosphere.
Bring vision to action: 分享心愿，头脑风暴，飞镖盘 set priorities，制定计划
Be the new leader to embark the new world.
Learn Grow Connect Shine
Start with a messy room. 3U: Unclean untidy unbelievable.
Mom started to clean up but he disagreed. Love letter, favorite T-shirt
Tiptoe into my room, when open the closet, things went down like waterfall.
How TM journey make me an organized person?
Feel belonged.
That was a bad joke.
Learn: discover who am I in a save environment
Grow: know your why- carry you through good times and bad times
2010 contest lost, what would you do when you lose? I blame judges.
2011 Four words, 2nd place in the world championship.
2012 Overcome the fear of losing. Not for winning, something else driving you.
2013 prove myself not win because of luck. Go to international again
2014 hope mom and dad to see me in the big stage.
2016 in the honor of my dad who passed away, too emotional.
2017 find myself again, not to be too emotional.
2018 win for people who help me. Favorite speech.
Stumbled, fail my best friend.
2019 less more
2020 online contest, try it
Disappointed, upset but not failures.
Grow: no failure only growth （Video in NBA-可以考虑一个演讲主题叫“没有失败的人生”）
My why is I want to be an influencer, who can articulate my points clearly and inspire others.
Me->we
Energy love community
Unclean untidy unbelievable ->Unlimited unforgetable? unbelievable
工作坊
CHAMP-像冠军一样演讲 (Content Humor Analogy Message Props)
Content is king
冲突：平行/递进/主次，设计悬念，满足关注八卦的心，并建立连接
转折：自我觉醒，英雄出现
改变：和冲突相反的改变，可以试着用“反向旅程法”来设计寻找故事，达到首尾呼应，逻辑通顺。
judge less help more
East or west, home is the best
East or west home is not the best
Humor
对逻辑适当调控后
对现实加工或破坏
李萍-89大区 烂牌之王
夸张-形容胖：别人都被吹跑，她一定是剩下的那个
出乎意料：打破预期的方式（上帝想给他个男儿身，却少了一样东西）
减肥不成，成功由胖变壮
这是她的出厂设置-类比
Analogy-类比 可遇不可求 (回程和Weikean聊乔布斯厉害的地方也是可以把抽象概念的东西讲清楚）
Message-short and sweet，对仗押韵金句。
就算手拿一手烂牌，人生依然精彩
Props-道具，本次中文冠军那一缕头发就是很好的道具。比如脱口秀演员徐致胜的逗号。
素材库，适合你的purpose，编排内容
learn connect share lead tomorrow
Think on your feet-Erik Barnes
我看到你们很感动，这是我的真心话
I know you
I am very lucky to have you
即兴喜剧
Co-creation of the presentation
Mindset: yes and, here to share, my success is our success (don’t be selfish)
Body: moves first
Structure: sound logical
Stand-up comedy vs improvisation.
智能演讲
The homo-sapien dancing with AI
尤瓦尔郝拉利-简史三部曲
智人的优势：虚构和想象力、情感表达、人际关系
智人的局限：记忆疲劳焦虑，语言能力
AI可以提供的帮助：
提供演讲质量
增强表达效果
设计演讲框架
提供经典演讲稿
优化演讲稿表达
改变措辞风格
生成双语演讲稿
生成框架和细节
生成提词卡
结合内容生成ppt，缺乏独特性和灵活性
学会提问和克制
问题的大与小
思考的快与慢
未来方向：多重人格大语言模型
在科技越来越发达的未来，人与人之间真实、深度的链接将会成为最宝贵的情绪体验。有独特个性、深刻思想的演讲是稀缺品，也是必需品。
动态，落后往前跑，乐观主义者是成功的关键
Public speaking puzzle-Piecing together how to connect with your audience. - Kwong Yue Yang
Write down: what are the Three things you will do to prepare a speech.
Purpose
Material
1. Know Your audience: Build rapport, connect and inspire
Give them a gift to thank them for listening.
Ask questions about the audience.
WIIFM
Connect first
举个例子：峰会后在俱乐部分享，因为不适不能来到现场。我可以这样开场和观众建立链接。昨天晚上我开会前就和大家打好招呼，我今天不太舒服但还ok，我就不开摄像头了，我会安静地在角落里，大家可以忽略我。我觉得这样做没什么问题，然后一同事开始她的介绍，她正好上次因为身体不适，临时爽约，她解释说她不记得因为什么原因了，但是一般她不舒服也都会参会，上次应该是非常不舒服了。这时我才意识到我可能给她带来Peer presure了。今天我来我希望没有给大家带来任何压力，一来我觉得来头马开会不是工作，是享受，二来我答应的事能做尽量做到，这也是给自己一个交代。
2. Be authentic
Be natural.
Help people feel the emotions.
Be vulnerable: we share similar experiences; we are all human.
Be you - find your style and let others find theirs. (We can try in our club, help others find their style).
We share our opinions in evaluating.
3. Speaking is an art
Many forms of speaking
Get feedback and reflect (balance the opinions, same advice from different people matters)
No shortcut
Make me who I am so I won’t quit TM. It's like quit myself.
For any initiative in the club, make sure it is not extra work, next term officers can continue, we all have fun.
Set examples to members.
峰会给工作坊嘉宾精心准备的礼物：左手一只鸡右手一只鸭-寓意回家
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