案例一:公众演讲往往会让我们觉得自己很“紧张”。直到有一天有人告诉我那其实是“兴奋”。如果没有了这种兴奋感,就会太放松没状态。所以要好好利用这种兴奋感。自此这种心跳加速的感觉从敌人变成了朋友。
案例二:据说约会去坐过山车、玩鬼屋等容易感情升温。由于恐惧带来的心跳加速容易被解读为心动。
正如该演讲人所说,
"Emotions are just guesses, predictions.
It's not built in you, but built by you.
So be an architect of your experience.
You have more control over your emotions, thus more responsibilities."
现象本身没这么多意义,是对现象的解读强行赋予了意义。

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