Today, one of my friends thanked me for stopping her thinking too much when she was in a tangle, and she also asked me why I am so sober when meeting problems. I didn't tell her too much. In fact, I also put me in a tangle sometimes.
I think this is our characters, the persons like us always think a lot, consider every details, and compare every methods. To some extent, it is good for us, because we are circumspect, we can not put us in a danger. But sometimes, it is not good for us, because too much thinking may drive us to the brink of despair. This is one of strengths in our characters, at the same time, this is also a weakness for us. No matter what it is, we should accept that this is a part of our characters, and we should control it in a balance level.
I begin to be cautious when I was in primary school, my class teacher was a very rigorous and narrow-minded man and he was very strict with me, because I was the monitor at that time. Once I did't get the full mark, he would let me write a self-criticism. I did't have a happy childhood, I was so nervous that I developed a habit of biting my nails and became stammer. Until now, I also bite my nails when I am thinking. When I began to work, I also have a unhappy experience which made me more worrying. But after a severe anxiety, I realized what my problem was, and I began to change.
It took me a long time to make such change successfully, and this succeed means a lot for me. I know that maybe I may not change it completely, but I still try my best to make it in a balance level. Fortunately, I have a best friend who is a natural optimist, when I am in a tangle, she can help me out of that tangle quickly.
I always tell myself that just look life as an experience to see the world, and then you will have nothing to fear. Just keep going on, for our dream.
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