2020-03-28 Educated: A memoir C4

Tara's father decided to go home after dinner. But it's dangerous to begin a twelve-hour drive. They had an accident and it changes the family. They didn't go to the hospital. Tyler fell into guilt and kept on blaming himself for the accident. Tara's mum had a serious brain injury.

发生这么严重的事故，他们还是没有去医院，作者爸爸还是觉得医生也无能为力，She was in God's hands.这场车祸总会让作者想起那些阿帕奇女人

All the decisions that go into making a life-the choices people make, together and on their own, that combine to produce any single event. Grains of sand, incalculable, pressing intosediment, then rock.人们共同或者独自做出的那些决定，聚合起来，制造了每一桩单独事件。沙粒不可计数，叠压成沉淀物，然后成为岩石。

如佛家言：万事万物皆有因果。