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A young couple had recently moved in across the street from another couple.

The second morning after their arrival as the young couple sat down for breakfast. The wife noticed their new neighbor outside washing clothes.

She told her husband those clothes don’t seem to be getting clean, maybe our neighbor doesn’t know how to wash them properly, perhaps she could use a better laundry detergent. The husband glanced at his wife but remained silent and so it went.

Each time the neighbor did laundry the young wife make some comment.

About a month later, the young wife was astonished to see a clean piece of clothing hanging on the neighbor’s clothes line. Excitedly she exclaimed to her husband:“look she’s learned how to wash clothes I wonder who taught her.Her husband responded:” I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows.”

Before passing judgment it’s essential to examine our objectivity and ability to see the positive aspects of others rather than just pin pointing problems and passing judgment.

So, be sure to clean your windows before concluding.

一对年轻夫妇最近搬进了另一对夫妇的街对面。

他们到达后的第二天早上，这对年轻夫妇坐下来吃早餐。妻子注意到他们的新邻居在外面洗衣服。她告诉她的丈夫那些衣服似乎不太干净，也许我们的邻居不知道如何正确地洗它们，也许她可以用更好的洗衣粉。丈夫看了妻子一眼，但保持沉默，事情就这样过去了。

每次邻居洗衣服的时候，年轻的妻子都会评论几句。

大约一个月后，年轻的妻子惊奇地发现邻居的晾衣绳上挂着一件干净的衣服。她兴奋地对丈夫说：“看，她学会洗衣服了，真不知道是谁教她的。”

她的丈夫回答说：“我今天早上起得很早，把窗户擦干净了。”

在做出判断之前，重要的是检查我们的客观性和看到他人积极方面的能力，而不是仅仅指出问题和做出判断。

所以，在下结论之前一定要先擦干净你的“窗户”。