Nowadays, there are half of the family asking grandparents to take care of the children because of the big pressure for living in the city. This is a unique and common phenomenon in China.
On the contrary, there are also more and more mother choosing to quit the job and stay at home to take care of their children. This figure also shows an upward trend year by year.
Who can give children better care, parents or grandparents?
1.As we know, now with the popularization of urbanization, we urban residents are under increasing pressure. We have to pay much money to buy the house, car, daily necessities and to raise a child.
While half or more of us are from the village. So we do not have strong backing for both parents and work arrangement. When we first step into this city, we must strive for ourselves.
After such a hard work, if one couple can buy a house in the first-tier city by themselves. It’s already a big deal. But this is not the end. Every month they have to do hard work to pay the mortgage and car loans.
Therefore, any sudden suspension of work by one of the spouses will bring huge troubles.
At this time, how lucky we will be if we have parents who are healthy enough and are willing to take care of our children.
I always thought that three generations living under the same roof is a happy thing. Everyday after work, you can see your own parents and children in the same house. You no need to see your parents each year for one or two times only. You can share with them the fun in the company. You can take them to the parks or shopping malls on the weekends.
Who can give children better care, parents or grandparents?
2.While, unluckily, this not always happen on all the families.
Some parents are unwilling to go to the first-tier city to live as the fast paced and expensive life. One side they feel not happy to change the stable life from the village or small city to first-tier city. Another side, they think they will burden their children by going to the city.
Under the circumstances. The mother have to quit the job and take care of their children by themselves. The father have to do more hard work to support the family. It will be lucky if their parents in the hometown are still healthy enough and no need their support.
3.The best thing is that, if the farther are strong enough to support the whole family. And the grandparents are healthy and rich enough to take care of themselves. Then the mother can use the full time to take care of the children without too much worries.
Who can give children better care, parents or grandparents?
4.Then, who can give children better care, parents or grandparents?
(1) .From the educational method: As we know, now the present society is quite different from the past. The children suffer bigger pressure from the education, skills training, interpersonal relationship, psychological quality, etc. So bringing up a children is not only to give them enough food, but also we need to give them more care on spiritual concerns. For most grandparents who haven’t got enough education, this will be a tough job.
(2) . From the behavioral habit: As everyone knows, most grandparents are spoiled for the babies. They are willing to do everything for them like feeding, dressing, packing up the toy, etc. While most parents want their children to have more self-care ability in life.
(3) From the character development: Many experts on parenting said that, the children who get more companionship and love from their parents, will be more confident, more positive and more loving.
While, even like this, proof by facts, many grandparents are more patient, more careful and more loving for the children.
Who can give children better care, parents or grandparents?
So, to sum up, who will take care of the children is not a easy thing to decide. We must consider this according to our display situation.
If we can't accompany the child every day, I believe as long as he feels the love and encouragement from the whole family, he will also grow up excellently.
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