培养杰出青少年七个习惯

      习惯成就性格，性格决定命运。青少年时期，短短几年，可以在叛逆中虚度时光，也可以在习惯养成中成就未来。

培养杰出青少年七个习惯

      《杰出青少年七个习惯》让你印象最深刻的是哪个习惯？哪条思维方式？

一、学会积极处世

Be Proactive

1、自己负责，做事积极主动。

I am a responsible person. I take initiative.

2、管理自己的行为、态度和情绪。

I choose my actions, attitudes and moods.

3、做了错事不怪别人。

I do not blame others for my wrong actions.

4、不用别人说也会去做正确的事情，哪怕没有人在看。

I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

二、先定目标有目标后行动

Begin with the end in mind

5、做事前定计划和目标。

I plan ahead and set goals.

6、做有意义和带来积极影响的事。

I do things that have meaning and make a difference.

7、是班级里的重要一员，为学校事务做贡献。

I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision.

8、期望成为一个好公民。

I look ways to be a good citizen.

三、重要的事情先做

Put first things first

9、在重要的事情上花时间。

I spend my time on things that are most important.

10、不该做的事，勇于说不。

This means I say no to things I know I should not do.

11、制定优先级，做日程表，执行计划。

I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan.

12、对自己有纪律，做事井井有条。

I am disciplined and organized.

四、双赢的思维意识

Think win-win

13、勇于争取自己想要的，同时也会考虑别人的需求。

I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want.

14、在别人的情感银行帐号里放下存款。

I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts.

15、有矛盾的时候，寻求能平衡彼此需求的解决方案。

When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

五、先理解别人在争取别人理解自己

Put others before yourself

16、仔细聆听别人的主意和情感。

I listen to other people's ideas and feelings.

17、努力从他人角度去理解问题。

I try to see things from their view points.

18、听别人说话的时候不插嘴、不打扰。

I listen to others without interrupting.

19、自信的说出自己的主意。

I am confident in voicing my ideas.

20、别人说话的时候，直视他的眼睛。

I look people in the eyes when talking.

六、协作增效

Synergize

21、珍重别人的优点，向他们学习。

I value other people's strengths and learn from them.

22、和大家好好相处，即使他们很不一样。

I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups.

23、能有效地进行团队合作，因为合作比单打独斗更能带来更好的解决方案。

I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone.

24、保持谦虚的精神。

I am humble.

七、磨刀不误砍柴工

Sharpen the saw

25、注意饮食、锻炼和睡眠。

I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep.

26、花时间和家人、朋友在一起。

I spend time with family and friends.

27、在各种地方都能以各种方式学到很多东西，学习的地方可不仅仅是学校。

I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school.

28、用有意义的方式去帮助别人。

I find meaningful ways to help others.

培养杰出青少年七个习惯

      从小养成这些好习惯的孩子，未来的路多数会走得比较顺畅和快乐。

      杰出与平庸的背后，其实就是习惯，种一颗7个习惯的大树，通向成功未来！