作为一个大专生（学校专业是2+1模式的，在大学校园里待了两年，工厂实习一年），如今毕业已经有8年的时间了，应该确切地说离开大学校园已经有9年时间了，在这九年里，甚至还在大学期间里，在职业道路上遇到不少好心人建议我去提升下学历。在他们眼里大专学历着实不起眼，这是可以理解的，但即使我能理解他们的好心，因各种或者某种原因我都没有接受他们的建议，更没有行动。
我并没有接受他们的好心建议，这是为什么？到底是为什么？在这些年，一直都有人建议我提升学历，摆脱大专生学历的“帽子”。如果早年间我就接受了他们的建议，花一两年时间甚至更长时间提升了学历，如今的命运，如今的工作，如今的生活是不是不一样？是不是比现在会更好一些？
我曾经是找什么样的借口来拒绝他们的好心建议的，已经不太记得，可能是工作太忙，可能是对自己没信心，可能是因为没钱，也可能是没找到动力，更大可能是不知道读书到底有什么用。
如今我又该找什么样的借口来敷衍他们的好心建议和掩盖自己的懒惰和不上进？
我想，如今的我内心已经有了坚定的答案：不会接受他们的好心建议，不会去为了考试而学习提升学历！而且还要定下规矩：这辈子都不应该去做提升学历这件事。（但应该去了解下能够提升学历的学校，专业和相关的知识！）
假设我接受好心建议，去花时间精力去做提升学历这件事了：
1、说明我在为过去的一失足而内疚、后悔。用今天的时间精力去后悔昨天的过失。（这有意义吗？在人生长途上真的值得吗？）
2、说明我内心接受因低学历就应该低人一等的观念。（凭什么要用人生几十年的时间去背负过去一个短暂的三年时间的小失误？自信本非常重要，难道要用这无法挽回的那三年时间来换取下半辈子几十年的不自信吗？真的要接受这个观念吗？拥有这个观念值得吗？）
3、我还可能、有动力去自学编程走上IT行业吗？
列到这，就应该暂停了，没有必要再列出4567了。
那么，我为什么不接受提升学历的建议，不去做提升学历这件事：
1、我用低学历时时刻刻提醒自己应该比别人更加努力学习、工作、生活。
2、在人生长途角度来看，第一条理由已经足够阻止我去做提升学历这件事情。（假如我是高学历，我还有什么更好，更深刻，更永恒的理由和动力去督促自己上进？暂时想不到！）
3、在人生职业道路上，从人性的角度上分析，我作为团队低学历成员，是不是更容易成为受教者。换句话说，领导、同事、身边人是不是更愿意去指导教育一个低学历、态度良好、愿意学习又有自信心的人。
4、时刻提醒自己，督促自己：多读书，多思考，多实践。
5、真正对自己有用的知识才能改变自己的命运。
6、低学历即使得不到破格对待，我却可以破格督促自己多读书，而且一直破格督促。
仍然感谢每一位好心人给我的建议，非常感谢！人生路上遇到了你们真好！
As a college student (school is a 2+1 model, staying on the university campus for two years, factory internship for one year), now has been graduating for 8 years, it should be said that it has been 9 years since leaving the university campus. Time is up, in these nine years, even during college, I met a lot of good people on the career path and suggested that I upgrade my degree. It is understandable that in college their college education is really inconspicuous, but even if I can understand their kindness, I have not accepted their suggestions for various reasons or some reason, and have no action.
I did not accept their kind advice, why is this? Why is it? In these years, there have been people who have suggested that I upgrade my education and get rid of the "hat" of college education. If I accepted their suggestions in the early years, it took a year or two to upgrade my education. Now, the fate, the work now, is life different now? Is it better than now?
I used to find an excuse to refuse their kind advice. I don’t remember very much. It may be that the work is too busy. It may be that I have no confidence in myself. It may be because I have no money, or I may not find motivation. I don't know what it is for reading.
Now what kind of excuses should I look for to perfuse their kind advice and cover up my laziness and not to advance?
I think, now I have a firm answer in my heart: I will not accept their kind advice, and I will not go to study for the exam! And we must also set the rules: in this life, we should not do the promotion of academic qualifications. (But you should get to know the school, professional and related knowledge that can enhance your education!)
Suppose I accept good advice and spend time and energy to improve my education:
1. Explain that I am guilty and regretful for a past failure. Use today's time and energy to regret yesterday's fault. (Does this make sense? Is it really worthwhile to grow on the road?)
2. Explain that I accept the concept of being inferior because of low academic qualifications. (Why should I use my life for decades to bear the small mistakes of the past three short years? Self-confidence is very important, is it necessary to use this irreparable three years to exchange for decades of unconfidence in the rest of my life? Do you really want to accept this concept? Is it worth it?)
3. Is it possible for me to have the motivation to go to the IT industry by self-learning programming?
If you list this, you should pause. There is no need to list 4567.
So why don't I accept the advice to improve my academic qualifications and not do the promotion of academic qualifications:
1. When I use low education, I always remind myself that I should study harder, work and live more than others.
2. From the perspective of people's growth, the first reason is enough to prevent me from doing things like upgrading my degree. (If I am highly educated, what better, more profound, more eternal reasons and motivation to urge myself to advance? I can't think of it for the time being!)
3. On the career path of life, from the perspective of human nature, I am a member of the low-education team, is it easier to become a teacher. In other words, leaders, colleagues, and people around them are more willing to guide the education of a person with low education, good attitude, willing to learn and have confidence.
4, always remind yourself, urge yourself: read more, think more, practice more.
5. Knowledge that is truly useful to you can change your destiny.
6, low education makes it impossible to deal with it, but I can refrain from urging myself to read more, and I have been arrogant.
I am still grateful to everyone who gave me advice, thank you very much! It’s great to meet you on the road of life!
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