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1 gifts, gifts are particularly simple: wild vegetables, millet, cattle and sheep are killed, of course, this is what I can see, can't see don't know

2. Reading history, politics, biographies and studying philosophy, he said that leaders like to talk about these things. They have to talk about them with others

3. White shirt is always spotless white, black shoes black shiny

4. Once he told me: don't be too important face, too important face can't earn money, put the face down, things will be much easier

5. He told me: To ask someone is not to prepare good gifts, but to turn him into a good friend first, with enough trust, everything will be easy to talk about

6. He said habitually from the perspective of others' interests, who can understand the heart

7. He advised me to develop the habit of bookkeeping, make my own financial affairs and analyze the dynamic trend of each sum of money, which is conducive to improving my financial intelligence

8. Every night after dinner, he would ask me to go for a walk. He said that if you don't exercise after dinner, you will get fat easily

9. He gave me all the books he had finished reading, saying that reading more paper books would make people more elegant, and exhorting me to take good notes

10. Once he asked me to go fishing. Within five minutes, I was impatient

Without saying a word, he soon caught a big fish and smiled at me and said: Young people are too impetuous, calm down to take everything seriously

11. Once he told me: You are so stubborn, so your mind enters a small alley. Stubbornness is to fight with yourself, and only by letting go of stubbornness can you break through the alley thinking

12. He likes taking photos. Instead of Posting them on his moments, he washes them out and writes his own comments on the back of buying a photo

13. He is usually very busy, but even then, he will go back to his parents' home for dinner once a week

14. He gets up at 6 o 'clock every morning, works out for half an hour, and reads for half an hour. He is in his 40s, but he is elegant

15. He told me to get into the habit of taking a lunch break so that I wouldn't feel drowsy in the afternoon and that my mind must always be alert

16. He ran to the temple when he was free. He said he could listen to his heart and not lose himself

17. When I met a problem and asked him for help, he said four words: grasp the nettle

Later, I don't complain when I encounter problems. I will solve problems when I encounter problems. When I encounter many things, I will not be afraid of things

18. He told me that men must know how to plan. Men who know how to plan will not be too low in emotional intelligence.

1.送礼，送的礼特别简单：野菜、小米、现杀的牛羊，当然，这是我能看见的，看不见的就不知道了

2.读历史、政治、看人物传记，研究哲学，他说领导们就爱谈这些，总得跟人有的谈，读完对自己启发也很大

3.白衬衣永远白得一尘不染，黑皮鞋黑得发亮

4.有次他跟我说：做人不能太要脸，太要脸赚不到钱，把脸放下，事情就好办多了

5.他告诉我：求人不是备好礼去求人家，而是先把他变成好朋友，有了足够的信任，所有事情就好谈了

6.他说习惯性从别人的利益角度出发，谁的心都能摸透

7.他劝我养成记账的习惯，自己做自己的财务，分析每一笔资金的动态走向，有利于提高自己的财商

8.每天晚上吃完饭他都约我出去走一圈，他说饭后不运动容易发胖，发胖显油腻，给别人第一印象不好

9.他把他读完的书都送我了，说多看纸质版的书，人会变得儒雅，还叮嘱我一定做好笔记

10.有次他约我去钓鱼，没5分钟我就不耐烦了，一会儿看看手机，一会儿跟人聊天，一条鱼没钓到

他一句话不说，不一会儿就钓了一条大鱼，朝我笑笑说：年轻人太浮躁，静下心来去认真对待每一件事

11.有次他跟我说：你这么固执，所以思维进入到一个小巷子里，固执就是跟自己斗气，放下固执才能突破小巷思维

12.他喜欢摄影，拍完照不是发朋友圈，而是洗出来，在买一张照片背后写上自己的心得

13.他平时忙得很，但再忙，一周也要回去他爸妈家吃顿饭

14.他每天早上6点就起床，健身半个小时，读书半个小时，40多岁的他身处江湖却一身儒雅

15.他告诉我养成午休的习惯，下午就不至于昏昏沉沉，头脑必须时刻保持清醒

16.他没事就往寺庙跑，他说来能倾听自己的内心，不至于迷失自己

17.我遇到问题想找他帮忙时，他就说了四个字：迎难而上

后来我遇到问题也不抱怨了，遇到什么问题就去解决什么问题，遇的事多了也就不怕事了

18.他告诉我男人必须要懂得谋事，懂谋事的男人情商都不会太低，心思缜密就能做到滴水不漏。