我爱你，我们分手吧！

我爱你，我们分手吧！

以下是来自一个刚听来的故事：

不知为何，她收到这封信时有一种鲜活的情绪，不是失落，更不是伤心，而是动情过，爱过后让她的生命流动起来的快意......

Hi honey,

First of all I would like to apologize having reduced the communication with you.

I was a bit busy the last time, but this was not the only reason.

I had to reflect our situation and to find my position for our future.

Actually I realized, that we had a lot wishful thinking about our common future. The hormones and feelings are only one side of the life, but sooner or later the brain should step in again and this has happened to me know.

In my opinion we are facing a couple of issues, that we will not be able to manage on the long run.

I will not be able to move to your city nor be able to visit you on a regular basis; due to my job here in my city.

On the other side, you said that you are able to work everywhere, but how do you want to keep in touch with your family?

And if you are here, you are on your own, as I have to work and fly around the world (unfortunately except your city) – you don’t speak my mother language, how do you want to organize your life here?

And we shouldn’t forget the difference in our age – right now, it may be OK, but what happens in 10 or 20 years?

And not yet mentioned the differences in our culture, language, expectations of what to do and interests…..

You like to travel and see the world to write about – I am on the road the whole year, so I prefer to be at home and work on my house or do bike tours and go diving ….

It would not be fair to you to bind you to me without a good vision for our future…

I know you see it different right now, but in this case I am the more life experienced person.

I really loved the time with you and you are such a beautiful person; I never dreamed to meet a woman like you. But we have to face the reality.

I will miss you a lot, but as sad as it is, it is better for both of us – believe me!

她回到：

Good morning, honey, good to hear from from you! I kinda figured it out why you reduced communication with me, I thought about these issues as well, they are truely existing......

We had great time together that’s important, I am not regret. I am happy we met.

I wish you the best for your life!

时差一天，他回到：

It is so sad, I really would like to hug you and give you the power to show the whole world your beautiful and amazing smile without any sadness in your heart again! I had a hard time by myself (and still have, cause I still love you!) to force myself to find a decision... I am so sorry......

她并未回复，心里默念一句

I love you too, but not for ever, but once....