The Experiment of Pairing, Ⅳ

Better and Better                                                                                                Day 19

    Yesterday we learned the strategy of goddess and male god. Then what’s the strategy of others ? In the experiment, those who can’t pair with the ones with biggest number have to go back to the next best, and change their goals from 90+ to 80+, and gradually find that 20+ or 60+ is OK. Those who with too small numbers are unfortunate. They are refused everywhere. These are called the leftover man or woman. There are only two ways for them. One is to give up high expectations and find a similar one. The other is to discuss with people with bigger number than you, you pair with me, how much benefit I give you, including house, property, etc. These situations are most common in the interaction among leftover men and women.

    昨天我們學習了女神、男神的配對策略。那麼其他人是什麼策略呢？在實驗中，那些無法與最高分群體配對的人，只能退而求其次，目標從90+改為80+，慢慢地發現20+或60+也可以。而那些數字太小的人就很悲催了，他們到處被拒，也就是我們在生活中常說的剩男、剩女。他們選擇的辦法只有兩條。一是放棄高期望，找個和自己差不多的；二是和對方（條件較好）商量，你和我配對，我給你多少利益，包括房子、財產等。這種情況在剩男、剩女的相親互動中尤為常見。   

                                                                                                            Sept.12th ,2018                                                                                                                  Bazhou.