我的赋能群

        今天组建了我自己的赋能群，并且设置了规则：有早上早起、阅读写作、健身、英语学习和字帖练习。人都是有惰性的，所以我设置了奖罚机制，几项规则写满了一张A4纸，在我发出去后，就有群员错误理解了，以为我是让他们在里面选择其中一到二项践行呢。其实这是每天要做的。还有的群员说，有的项目比较容易，就挑选容易的选，有些群员说我有的项目可以做到了。

           在他们身上我看到了曾经的自己，记得我每次学习一项新技能时，都是无聊的自傲过头，甩不掉心理的包袱，所以收获甚微。后面领悟到：“决不可自视过高，学习任何事物，一定要从零开始。真正的学习之道，就是在教授者的面前将自己归零，敞开心扉从头学起。” 近两年在学习茶艺的道路上，我走的挺快，就是因为我懂得了：“让心净空无一物，才能容纳任何事物。越深入学习，越感觉自己一无所知。”

You see, most people,they let their ego get in the way of success. it's very easy, you notice people say i know that, i know that, i know that,well you don't know shit. 

You do not know it, how do you know when you know something? 

If  you  don't live it,you don't know it.

So those three words are very very dangerous, and they destroy your potential,they destroy your success.

Why,because the minute you say i know that, your brain shuts down.

You're not listening anymore, and you're like,"Okay i know that, i don't need to listen any further."

You're not paying attention, so what you know it, so what that you know it.

It's not about knowing it.

I could tell you this, i am not an original thinker, let me just tell it to the whole world.

I am not an original thinker, there's nothing new about what i do.

Everything i learn from Napoleon hill, other successful entrepreneurs.

The first three dangerous words, i know that.

       想到今天阅读《日日是好日》这本书时，《利休百首》其中一首诗讲述：“学习时三个成长阶段：守、破、离，守。我想好习惯的养成也是这样的，学习过程中不必太在意是否能够离开理解，顺其自然等待，慢慢沉淀终会有豁然开朗的那一天。”