Seek first to understand, Then to be understood.
这句话什么意思?
We all want to share ourselves,
When you want to talk with others.
You always want to say.
我们都想说自己的观点.
当你和别人谈话的时候,
你总是想说.
Not only you want to say,
The person talk with you is want to say too.
They want to say theirselves points.
不只是你想说,
和你说话的人也想说.
他们想表达自己的观点.
But if you want the others agree your point,
You must do this,
Listen to them,
Listen patiently, Listen carefully,
Control yourself what to say,
Just listen.
但如果你想让别人同意你的观点.
你就要学会:
聆听他们,
耐心的聆听,认真的聆听,
控制你自己想说的,
只是聆听.
Then you'll find that,
People want to say with you,
And they want to listen to you.
That's important.
然后你会发现,
人们愿意和你说,
并且愿意听你说.
这非常重要.
Only they want to listen to you,
What you said is important.
Otherwise,
The more you talk, the less they want to hear.
只有他们愿意听你说,
你说的才重要.
否则,
你说的越多，他们越不想听。
So,
Seek first to understand, Then to be understood.
因此，
先去试着理解别人，
然后才能被理解。
沟通的开始是聆听。
That's all.
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