不知是时光冲淡了回忆,还是回忆遗忘了时光。闲暇之时,偶然也会回首那些逝去的岁月,光影交错,似流水斑斓,却已是再也无法挽回的时光。过往的岁月,是一座堆砌在尘埃下的城堡,里面住满了生命中的所有遇见与错过。那些曾经的微笑,弥漫在回忆里,散不开,也看不清。
三十岁是人生的一个分水岭,有的人利用这个分水岭完成了很好的转变,有的人仍旧庸庸碌碌,虚度光阴。
想要活出理想人生,就要勇于改掉坏习惯。
商业内幕网站总结了一些年轻人常有的不好习惯。
Running out of money at the end of the month——做“月光族”
"It's time to look at where your money goes, and look at ways of saving money without going without," Hannah, a charity worker from London, said.
伦敦慈善工作者汉娜说:“是时候关心一下你的钱都去了哪里,想办法把钱省下来、别让自己没钱花。”
There are plenty of budgeting apps out there that can help you to work out where you're spending most.
现在有很多省钱应用程序都能帮你了解自己在哪方面支出最多。
Not being able to cook for yourself——不会自己做饭
Microwave meals and pot noodles are all very well when you're a student, but as you get a bit older, it starts to look a bit sad.
学生时代,吃微波炉食品和方便面还说得过去。但随着年岁渐长,还这么吃就有点可悲了。
According to Kieran, BI UK's news editor, knowing how to cook proper meals is a habit you have to get into.
商业内幕网英国分站的新闻编辑基兰认为,自己下厨做饭是你必须养成的习惯。
Clinging on to friendships that have run their course——对已经缘尽的友谊不愿放手
The further into your 20s you go, you may find the fewer friends you have. As you leave university and begin your career, some relationships just don't last the distance — and operations officer Laura says you should accept this.
你越接近30岁,你可能发现自己的朋友越来越少。离开大学开始职场生涯后,有一些友谊是捱不过距离的。运营专员劳拉称,你应该接受这个事实。
"Having lived abroad for a number of years since uni, I learnt a while ago not to lose sleep over friendships that fall by the wayside. Now I put a lot more effort and time into worthwhile friendships."
“上完大学后我在国外住了几年,在不久之前我学会了不要因为半途而废的友情而失眠。现在我会把更多精力和时间投入到有价值的友谊上。”
Spending time with people who make you feel insignificant——和不重视你的人在一起
Megan said: "Cut the people who make you feel insignificant. Why pour energy into the people who don't like you when you could be spending time with the friends who love you?"
梅根说:“和那些让你感觉不被重视的人断绝来往。为什么要把精力花费在那些不喜欢你的人身上,而不和那些真心关爱你的朋友在一起呢?”
"Not everyone is going to like you, so don't spend time forcing it. Learn to love the people who like you just as you are."
“想让每个人都喜欢你是不可能的,所以也不用花时间讨好别人。学着爱那些喜欢你本真的人。”
Not spending enough time with your parents——没有多花时间陪父母
"It can be easy to become 'too busy' to make plans with family a priority," said Ali, senior editor at BI UK. "However, as you get older, you realize how this is actually the most important thing. This can be as simple as picking up the phone a couple of times a week, going for lunch, or spending a weekend together as often as you can. Friends come and go, but your family will — and should — always be number one."
商业内幕网英国分站的高级编辑阿里说:“人们很容易以忙为借口把家庭计划抛诸脑后。但是,随着你年纪增长,你会意识到其实家庭才是最重要的。家庭计划可以很简单,每周打几次电话,吃吃午饭,或者经常共度周末。朋友来来去去,但是家人会——也应该——永远排在第一位。”
说了这么多,小编最后放波图。。
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