Linus, the founder of Linux, once said on a openning speech that respect should not be given, respect should be earn. Since he is quote 'abrasive person', the idea is deep in his mind. It is ture that the real world seems functions like this. First It should be claimed that the opposite of respecting someone is not looking down on someone. What it really point out is that you cannnot do nothing but look forward to having someone's respect there.
So how do we deal with that? The answer is first you have to believe in your mind that you are deserved to be loved, and you always have a choice. Although you are no one today, but you know step by step ,you will be someone ,by learning from your fault, by learning from people on higher lever but at the same time looking them just as a tunnel. The only thing you want from them is the knowledge and mutual respect but not their flatter.
That is what Burce Lee call: Be Water. Everything that obstacle your improving and innner developing is dissapper. Mocking and laugther do not borther you if you are really a strong man, and applaud and appreciation prove nothing.
Love yourself and be open-minded. Be Water my friend.
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