最近,被英语先生们裏挟着又一次拾起了百词斩爱阅读,读点难度不大的小说还勉强,目前在读的“感悟人生”系列短文,着实很难意会。但遇到了“Feel the pain”这篇短文,倒是无端地生出些共鸣。
恰逢假期,突然多了些时间空想、遐想、瞎想……尤其是仰望天花板,看阳光透过窗户从西墙转到东墙时感叹时光的流转,反复品读这篇短文,顿悟“Pain is meant to wake us up.”
世人皆喜甜甜的、美好的感觉,对痛苦避之唯恐不及,因此“People try to hide there pain.” 但无论如何,痛苦总是伴随我们左右:
病痛无疑是痛苦的,但是在提醒我们时刻关注健康;
繁重的工作也许是痛苦的,但那是体现我们的社会价值;
学习的过程也许是痛苦的,但终会因拔节式成长而感到喜悦;
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生命中若没有那些痛苦做调料,又怎能体会人生百味的醇厚?!
不回避,不逃避,像接纳老朋友一样接纳病痛、苦痛,在能感觉到痛的时候细细品味过去和未来的美好,不也是一种修炼吗?!
Pain is a feeling. My feelings is a part of me. My own reality.
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People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all.
People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing.
People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up.
People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio.
You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters.
Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality.
If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality.
You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.
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