A simple choice of words can make difference between someone accepting or denying your message. You can have very beautiful thing to say but say it in the wrong way, pew, it’s gone.
This is a very familiar topic since we have mimic this speech. We all understand the power of words but how can we use words powerfully?
可是我们不能选择自己的父母家人，愿每个人都开始善待你身边的人。从我们的话术开始：
你太胖-你很健康，心宽体胖
你有虎牙-你很可爱
你脸大-你面子大
你长得丑-你越看越有味道（马云说的）
I will give your some situation so that you can practice to comfort/Congratulate/appreciate someone
1. Comfort: lay-off, kids got bad scores or lose in a competition
You got a big package, reward yourself and your family a big trip, more time with your children, a good gap year to think about what you really like and strengthen your own capability, believe in yourself, take it as an opportunity and a better job may be waiting for you, for young people it is a good opportunity to switch careers, industries. People remain in the company might be challenging too.
2. Congrat: promotion marriage
You deserve it. Your efforts are paid off. See you as a role model.
3. Appreciate: mom, college who coaching you for a long time
My mom gave me a lot of opportunity to learn English, and she always praised me. Although I cannot understand English but I can recognize your English is very good.
My father always trust me, believe in me. Whatever the choice I made he believes it is the best choice for me.
I want to appreciate myself, because I’m the person company myself the most. I will always be the one that standing behind myself.
Last but not least, saying positive words to ourselves is very powerful too.
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