Tips Of writing

小武童鞋正在准备做日更挑战，每天至少要写600字，预设了很多题目给他。已经写了好几天了，题目是五花八门的，有一些是生活的感悟，有些是对事情的看法，也有一些单单是某些特殊的主题，需要做相关的检索和研究才能够写出来。但是小武同学觉得有些话题可能还好说一些有些话题实在是很难把字数凑到600，那么我们要说说怎么才能够今天小武同学更新的主题是:Why we need social connection.

这个就不是一个简单的技术介绍了，更多的是一些看法，确实有的时候写着写着就无话可说了，我们为什么需要一些社交的连接呢？因为我们有情感上的心理上的需要，然后呢似乎就没什么好说的了，最多再展开一下，内向的人是怎么样外向的人是怎么样，那么我们可以探讨一下如何去展开一个主题。

第1种展开主题的方法就是对问题的本身进行分析分析它的来源和它的结果，隶属出它的一些特征，我们管这个叫横向分析。以小武同学今天要写的为例。

Social contact is an important aspect of human Activity composition. A good social environment can make it easier for us to expand our circle of life and better accomplish the work we want to accomplish.Because our activities in society are more exchanges between people, so the relationship between people is very important, which includes our teachers, classmates, friends and relatives.

说到这儿似乎就没话可说了，那么我们再展开怎么展开呢？我们正面的说完了还可以，反面的来说。

If we can't maintain a normal social identity, what consequences will it lead to?He may cause us to be relatively isolated. When there are some things or difficulties, we have to face her independently. This makes us feel very lonely and helpless, and we don't have the courage to overcome the current difficult situation.In addition, because we lack the help of others, we need to work harder to complete all the construction independently. Sometimes, because of the difficulties, some things are not what we can do independently. At this time, we will face Many failed choices.

反面的也说完了，似乎真的就没有话说了。那么我们还可以试着另一种方法，除了横向的去展开分析它的原因和它导致的后果，我们还可以纵向的去分析，也就是说按照时间去分析。从他的起因到他未来的发展。

Social contact has a very long history.When people leave the animal population, even before they leave the animal population, they have learned to coordinate and divide labor. Just like at the beginning, the division of labor between men and women is different. Men are mainly responsible for hunting outside, and women are responsible for hunting. Maintain a livelihood at home.At this time, there is no doubt that you can get to know more people and you may have a more comfortable life.Like the lion of the prairie, a successful lion king, there are always many female lions around for four weeks, they and many young lions form a large family together, so that they can hunt together, and share the fruits of labor is much better than those who roam the prairie alone.With the social division of labor, people rely more and more on each other, and it is this dependence that can make people focus on a particular field, so that they become more skilled and better, but at the same time they also rely more on others to provide help, at this time it is very helpful to establish a wide range of social ties. Therefore, the connection of a society is not only the existence of humans, but also many wild animals. They live together as a group, which can improve the standard of living and the probability of survival in the cruel nature. This is also the crystallization of human wisdom. .

好，我们按时间顺序似乎也说了不少，甚至已经谈到人还是猴子时代的时候的社交关系了。这样我们又凑出来几百字，但是接下来又怎么办呢？如果本来我们只是想写一篇5分钟左右的讲演稿，会员，人家告诉你，你准备半个小时吧，这个时候怎么办呢？我们需要大量的素材来扩充我们的篇幅，这个时候我们可以祭出我们的绝招。这个绝招简单来说就是。

无中生友

要注意啊，这里面并不是写的错别字，就是指的朋友的友。也就是说当我们在说话的时候，经常会使用的一个技巧，我有一个朋友他如何如何了。而这个朋友有的时候是根本不存在的，仅仅是你希望通过一个故事来说明一个问题。也就是说从虚无中生出一个朋友来。故事就可长可短了，而且也能够使人更加理解你想表达的内容，当然故事的情节也要贴近听众或者读者的生活，用一个太过高大上的大家也理解不了。

那么针对social connection这个话题应该怎么说呢？

I have a friend who is a very successful person. He graduated from a prestigious university. After graduation, he got a very good job. He also bought a big house in the first-tier cities. With the gradual increase in housing prices, The house has increased in value more than ten times. His income is also very high, the working environment is also very good.

But the working environment makes him feel very bored, because he found that he is just a small screw in the big machine of the whole company. He felt very depressed and felt that his life was wasted, so he wanted to change his life. He came from the countryside, his hometown is a place with beautiful mountains and clear waters, but far from the city, the local folk customs are also very simple, of course the natural landscape is very beautiful, just like many famous scenic spots.

So he sold a big house in a big city, built a very beautiful villa in his hometown, and a big yard, raised a few dogs, and planted many beautiful flowers in front of the door. He has many Money sells the house, leaving many assets.And these assets in his hometown, is already a lot of people can not earn a lifetime, so he can safely enjoy the rest of his life.

Things began in this way, although he began in his forties, his retirement life, looking at the green mountains every day, feel very comfortable, away from the city's noisy and office all kinds of intrigues. He can finally plant a few acres of land, grow some of his own vegetables, and no longer worry about pesticides or fertilizer residues. It seems that many of the usual trivial and small troubles have left him, in front of him. It is a very bright and leisurely retirement life.

Things went on like this for three months. He turned off his alarm clock, no longer relied on the ringing of his cell phone to wake him up, and no longer stayed up late to think of a plan to show his boss. Away from the computer code, but in leisure time, through the flat living room big TV to catch up with the play.

Time passed day after day. He lived like this every day, until one day he suddenly felt very annoying and missed the busy life in the city a little bit, and his usual friends, although on the surface, everyone was different. They may seem friendly, but deep down they have their own unique ideas. And he also misses his usual life, the dirty barbecue stand on the roadside.Although it did not eat healthily, it tastes very good and makes him very happy. Although he was woken up by the alarm clock every morning, he had no time to think about other things all day, to go to work and to enjoy the scenery of the roadside and the beautiful girls passing by. All of this is his social relationship.He suddenly found that after leaving them, he felt very uncomfortable.

The end of the story can be imagined. My friend once again returned to the big city, rented a small house, found a new job, and continued his busy nine-to-five life. In fact, the conditions in the city are not good, whether it is health or the intensity of work, he is not short of money, it can be said that in the economy has been able to basically meet his living needs. But the only thing missing is his social connection. From this story, we can also see how important social interaction is and how important a part of our life it is.

看看这样无中生友的写一下，是不是就有很多很多话可以说了呢，而且通过这样的故事，大家也能够明白你到底是想说什么，比简简单单的说一句社交生活是非常重要的，是不是更加容易被人接受和理解呢，同时我们也凑够了足够大的篇幅，如果在演讲的时候也超过了足够长的时间，算是一个不错的小技巧了吧。