中午买了几本疯狂阅读,买了几本字帖,买了《被讨厌的勇气》,花了105元。下午舒阳就让我当读书群组长了,一个月1000元,不用点评,就个开营、结营参与一下。
点评是领读人的工作。我领读了两次,第一次结束,给了我166元。我没想到领读还有钱拿,元元老师领读了一年半,没有人给过她一分钱。我给她发了66元的红包,她又回我了88元的红包。第二次结营,又是166元,我给50个书友分了66元的红包。三百多人的大群,每天坚持分享的不超过20个。很多潜水的,也在默默关注,汲取心灵的营养。关注娜姐读书大中心的人年前达到了一千四百多,花200元钱就可以听到100本书的精要概括,还可以跟着读书群一起细读,有陪伴,有互动。娜姐和舒阳办这个的初衷,就是因为她们收到很多读者的来信,关于工作,关于情感,关于婆媳,关于亲子,很多问题不是一句话两句话可以彻底解决好的,思维决定行为,行为决定习惯,习惯决定性格,性格决定命运。只要有五个人报名读书大中心,我这1000元就不白拿。虽然她们没提,但我希望通过功劳养活自己,而不是通过苦劳养活自己。上期领读,也认识了很多新面孔,得到了书友们很多的认可和追随。虽然欣赏和赞美已经听腻了,看到书友们的改变、喜悦、平和,确定自己做的事很有意义。享受了几个月的鲜花和掌声,只想一个人默默抽离,向拍拍看齐,不鸣则已一鸣惊人。新的领读者会给读书群带来新的血液和活力,我就第二天再回复,挑一些问题很严峻的并且没被回应的书友来互动,只做小小的补充,不抢风头,把舞台交给领读者和书友们。
零和博弈,总是让人无可奈何,不管你是主动的还是被动的。组长科科带的我,现在我却代替了她。
元元老师也开始写公众号了,昨晚刚写的第一篇,就分享给我了,虽然我已进入梦乡,看来我在她心里,也有一席之地,不只是天边的云彩。她在get新技能的路上一点停不下来了,学完包子披萨水果派之后是游泳,学完编程之后是打字敲键盘……不是在学习新技能就是在使用新技能。
跟翠翠聊天,发现她忙碌于家务、陪娃、工作中,身体也有好多地方不适,更别提读书学习了。没读书不代表没有活力、成长,生活也是一本大书,需要我们用一生去读,敢于做减法也是一种勇气。生命的力量在于不顺从。
宝爸昨天陪娃的觉悟、耐心、热心,空前高涨,我这才仨核桃俩枣的,就高兴成那样了。虽然他以前现在嘴上没说过什么,我能慢慢开源节流,他还是很欣慰的。带娃的几年我跟他说过,等娃都上学了咱俩一起奔小康,现在你先自己奔。
最后晒晒那些知心的书友、灿烂的日子。
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