每次吵架，都应该男生先认错，这是全球保护妇女协会高举女权的心声。
In every quarrel, boys should admit their mistakes first. This is the voice of the Global Association for the Protection of Women's Rights.
很快又是新的一年的，即将两年了。
在这一年里，其实几乎每天我们都在吵架，每次吵架，我都会拉黑他，并不是吵不过他，我觉得他总是拿着他国家宗教的东西来给中国人洗脑，我觉得方式真的是太陈旧又老套，而我又一向喜欢新鲜事物。刚开始是我拉黑他，后来变成了他拉黑我。
Soon it will be a new year, about two years.
In this year, we quarreled almost every day. Every time we quarreled, I blacked him out, not beat him up. I think he always brainwashed the Chinese with his country's religious things. I think the way is really too old and old, and I always like new things. At first I blacked him out, then he blacked me out.
记得有次吵架，然后因为楼下漏水，是空调漏水好像，外面下特别大的雨，我们楼下住的是房东和他的儿子，房东两口子上来敲门，要检察哪里漏水。就这么很正常很简单的一件事情。
那时候是夏天，我们两个在家里穿着都是短袖，裤子是夏天的那种到膝盖的裤子，然后房东叔叔和阿姨敲门我赶快去开门，接着他就慌慌张张赶紧去换长袖衣服和长袖的裤子。
因为雨下的特别大，所以没办法修理，雨水顺着管道流到了楼下房东儿子的家里，他们也没办法然后就回去了。
之后，他就开始跟我吵架，问我为什么不换衣服，甚至问我为什么要开门。有人敲门，而且是房东，为什么不赶快开门？但是在他世界里就好像，交了房租这个房子就变成了他私人物品一样，他还甚至问我为什么房东要来检察空调，我说因为漏水，楼下淹了原因我是因为我们家里的管道问题，但是他接着就开始辱骂起来，大概说些中国人没有信仰，不知道怎么尊重人，我当然不高兴了，我就跟他打了起来，是的，我们两个人动手打架从卧室打到客厅又打到厨房，现场狼藉一片，家里本身就很乱
I remember a quarrel, and then because there was a leak downstairs, it was like a leak in the air conditioner. It rained heavily outside. We lived downstairs with the landlord and his son. The landlord and his wife came up to knock at the door and wanted to check where the leak was. This is a very normal and simple thing.
At that time, it was summer. We both wore short sleeves at home. The trousers were knee-high ones in summer. Then the landlord's uncle and aunt knocked at the door and I hurried to open the door. Then he hurried to change the long-sleeved clothes and trousers in a flurry.
Because the rain was particularly heavy, there was no way to repair it. The rain flowed down the pipeline to the landlord's son's home downstairs and they went back.
After that, he began to quarrel with me, asking me why I didn't change clothes and even why I opened the door. Someone knocked at the door and was the landlord. Why not open the door quickly? But in his world, it was like paying the rent and the house became his personal belongings. He even asked me why the landlord came to inspect the air conditioner. I said that I was due to the pipeline problem in our house because of the leaking water and the flooded downstairs, but he then began to insult me, probably saying that some Chinese did not believe and did not know how to respect people. Of course I was not happy. I fought with him. Yes, the two of us started fighting from the bedroom to the living room and then to the kitchen. The scene was chaotic and the house itself was chaotic.
大概那真的是挺激烈的一场打仗了，然后他还说我力气大，还说我伤害了他。他会埋怨房东，然后抱怨房东没有礼貌，怎么可以随便进别人家里。然后我就质问他，这并不是我们的房子，房子的名字不是你，这是别人的房子，别人当然有权利任何时间都可以进来。然后他开始各种反驳我。有时候我真的觉得没办法跟他这个外国人去讲中国关于礼节方面的问题了。总之，他认为他的宗教比生命都要重要。我在这里警告你们所有的未婚正在谈恋爱的女生，不要以为你们处于热恋期，然后他就不会因为宗教问题跟你翻脸，你夏天穿一件短裙子试试，他会骂你肮脏的吃猪肉的中国人，而且还会嘲笑你没有信仰，重点是你如果真的嫁给了他这辈子都告别了裙子了。
Probably it was a really fierce battle, and then he said I was strong and hurt him. He will complain about the landlord, and then complain that the landlord is not polite and can enter someone else's house at will. Then I asked him, this is not our house. The name of the house is not yours. This is someone else's house. Of course, someone has the right to come in at any time. Then he began to refute me. Sometimes I really don't think I can tell him about etiquette in China. In a word, he thinks his religion is more important than life. I'm warning you all the unmarried girls who are falling in love, don't think you are in love, and then he won't turn against you because of religious issues. You try wearing a short skirt in summer, he will scold you dirty Chinese who eat pork, and will laugh at you for not believing. The point is that if you really marry him, you will all say goodbye to the skirt in your life.
有好多次吵架之后，我真的不想跟他说话，然后他就会主动认错，但是事后他会说他都说了一千遍对不起，但是我还是不原谅他，是的，我记仇！
家里两室一厅，每次吵架都想一个人静静，但是他是不可能让你一个人待着的，他会认为如果让你一个人待着，你会胡思乱想然后又生气结果就是又揍他一顿，所以每次他都会跑过来强行把我抱到到我们的主卧室里。然后我会再一次的跑但是他会紧紧抓着我不放，然后宁愿让我揍他一顿，他说我可以打他，只要我不生气就好了，因为我生气我会生病，然后他会哭。
After many quarrels, I really don't want to talk to him, and then he will take the initiative to admit his mistake, but afterwards he will say he said sorry a thousand times, but I still don't forgive him, yes, I bear grudges!
The family has two rooms and one hall, and wants to be alone every time they quarrel, but he can't let you stay alone. He will think that if you stay alone, you will entertain foolish ideas and then get angry and hit him again, so every time he runs over and forcibly holds me in our master bedroom. Then I will run again, but he will hold me tight, and would rather let me beat him. He said I can beat him, as long as I am not angry, because I am angry, I will get sick, and then he will cry.
前段时间真是受不了了，家里人全部都来炮轰我，紧逼着我们，压力真的很大，我也不知道该怎么办。然后他还跟我吵架，我就特别想把他赶走，然后我就报警了请求了援助，警察叔叔电话联系我，我没有接到，实际上，是我拒接了。
因为当我看到官方给我回复电话联系那四个字，我突然的心软了，我忽然觉得他真的没有做错任何事情啊，为什么我要赶他走，我突然觉得自己为什么老做冲动的事情，为什么不高兴的时候总是让全世界来买单，让全世界都为我伤心，然后又想着让他回去他肯定不愿意回去，每次让他回去他都要流眼泪，他说他是真的很爱我所以永远都不会离开，但是每次吵架我都要求快点离婚，他每次都说，每个人结婚以后都会吵架，但是吵架并不等于要离婚。我想，我可能就是这么一个很随意的人吧，一切都只是看心情，我高兴了全世界都好，我不高兴了全世界都要悲哀
Some time ago, I really couldn't stand it. All the family members came to bombard me and press us. The pressure was really great and I didn't know what to do. Then he quarreled with me, and I especially wanted to get rid of him. Then I called the police and asked for help. Police uncle contacted me by phone and I didn't receive it. In fact, I refused to accept it.
Because when I saw the official call back to me to contact the four words, I suddenly relented. I suddenly felt that he really didn't do anything wrong. Why did I drive him away? Why did I suddenly feel that I always do impulsive things? Why did I always ask the whole world to pay the bill when I was not happy and make the whole world sad for me? Then I thought that he would definitely not want to go back. Every time he asked him to go back, he said he really loved me so much that he would never leave, but every time he quarreled, I asked for a quick divorce. Every time he said, everyone will quarrel after getting married. I think, I may be such a casual person, everything just depends on the mood. I am happy that the whole world is good, and I am not happy that the whole world is sad.
我真的是从来都没有想过，原来我也会有心软的时候，原来我也会有怂的时候。简直就是不敢相信。
后来我明白了，我可能习惯了所有人对我的宠爱，不仅仅只有他，还是我的家人，家人对我一直都是万般包容，然后自己就匆匆决定了自己的终身大事甚至根本不需要经过父母商量甚至结婚领结婚证也根本没有跟家里人说，然后就带着一张国外的身份证带着一个外国人飞回了国内，家里人是真的万脸懵逼。还有很多很多人，以前的老板，还有客户，他们对我都是超级宽容，我忘不了有一次我发了一个好友圈，我真的只是随便发了一个好友圈说我想要这只卡西欧的手表，然后我的客户立刻私信我，问我多少钱，然后我随便说了价格，实际上我不知道多少钱啊！然后对方直接给我发了个大红包。后期经常性的就莫名其妙得到这种打赏。还有朋友，闺蜜也是，永远忘不了第一次见面，然后对方就直接邀请我去参加一个生日会，而且现场别人送她的999朵玫瑰直接转手就送给我了，我那时候像个傻子一样高兴的喝掉了桌子上好几瓶红酒。
I really never thought about it. It turned out that I would also have softhearted time, and I would also have counselling time. I just can't believe it.
Later, I realized that I may be used to the favor of all people, not only him, but also my family, who has always been all-embracing to me. Then I decided my life-long event in a hurry without even consulting my parents or even talking to my family about getting a marriage certificate. Then I took a foreign ID card and flew back home with a foreigner. The family was really all - faced. There are many and many people, former bosses and customers, who are extremely tolerant to me. I can't forget once I sent a friend circle, and I really just casually sent a friend circle saying I want this Cassio watch, and then my customers immediately believed me privately and asked me how much money, and then I casually said the price, actually I don't know how much money! Then the other party directly sent me a big red envelope. Later often get this kind of reward without rhyme or reason. Also, friends and girlfriends will never forget to meet for the first time, and then the other party invited me directly to a birthday party, and 999 roses sent to me by others directly changed hands. At that time, I drank several bottles of red wine on the table as happily as a fool.
其实，在温室中生长的花儿是真的很容易就凋谢的。我也感谢曾经在我迷茫实在不知道该怎么前进的时候，身边有一个人至少还会给我警钟给我鼓励并且警告我不要像一只扶不起的阿斗，甚至会说真正应该展翅飞得高的雄鹰，那才应该是我。
很多次当我有点灰心，我就真的会想起这个人，他以前很努力的想让我前进但是我那时候并不明白他的一番苦心，后来的这几年，我真的是非常收益。
我想啊，如果我真的让他离开，没有人再跟我对练错的英语单词，没有人再给我做饭，然后甚至陪着我玩的人都没有了，我说我也想要学骑马，他会立刻起身，快，到我背上来。然后我会一脚把他踹到地板上，我说我想去马场体验学习真正的马术。他会说，太危险了，你如果摔跤了你会疼，我也会疼的。每次我生病，他都会说，你认为我真的不疼吗，看着你难受我比你难受一百倍，只是你根本不知道。
我想啊，像我这样比较粗心大意的人，可能真的就感觉不出来别人的那种心意吧，毕竟我也是很懒的人，我高兴不高兴都在脸上，但是恐怕这世界上，如今的社会上，很少有人会高兴不高兴都在脸上写出来吧。
In fact, the flowers growing in the greenhouse are really easy to fade. I am also grateful that once when I was confused and really didn't know how to move forward, there was a person around me who would at least give me a wake-up call and warn me not to be like an unassailable dou, or even say that I should really spread my wings and fly high, that should be me.
Many times when I was a little frustrated, I would really think of this person. He tried very hard to make me move forward, but I didn't understand his painstaking efforts at that time. In the next few years, I really benefited a lot.
I think, if I really let him leave, no one will practice the wrong English words with me, no one will cook for me, and then no one will even accompany me to play. I said I also want to learn to ride a horse, and he will immediately get up and come to my back. Then I will kick him to the floor with one foot. I said I want to go to the racecourse to experience and learn real horsemanship. He would say, It's too dangerous. If you wrestle, you will hurt, and I will. Every time I get sick, he will say, do you think I really don't hurt? I feel a hundredfold worse than you when I look at you, but you don't know.
I think, a more careless person like me may not really feel the feelings of others. After all, I am also a lazy person. I am happy or unhappy in my face, but I'm afraid in this world, few people in today's society will be happy or unhappy in their faces.
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