昨天的一段经历，让我思考这样一个话题：我到底是谁，我做了什么，又该做什么？
人活着是一辈子的事情，而有时候会觉得自己是个美好的姑娘，拥有拥抱世界的勇气，但是又有时候觉得自己很不好，很差劲，脆弱和渺小。外在的快乐和伤悲，又有多少藏在内心的深处？到底如何衡量一个人？如何过好这一生？
我到底是谁？
记得有句话是说：如你的气质里，藏着你走过的路，读过的书和爱过的人。此时此刻的你，是所有你的过往说过的话，做过的事，读过的书，遇到的人，经历的感受…它们可能一点一滴铸造了“现在”的你，但是并不决定未来的你！人，是一个非常具有创造力的生命体，每一分每一秒都是变化和成长，如何定义你自己，完全在于你如何衡量你自己！
依旧相信你拥有春天的活力与美好
依旧相信你拥有拥抱全世界的力量
依旧相信你纯净心灵下的爱和被爱
依旧相信你生命可以如鲜花般绽放
我做了什么？
中国有个古话叫“悔过自谦”，真的觉得自己做错的时候，才知道那根本不值得你那么去做。但又有句话说是“一切都是最好的安排”，现在的所有的事情的发生其实都是它“本该发生”的，一切行为背后必有“因果”。一定是因为自己的什么起心动念发起，也一定程度上预示着会有的结果。
反思、理解、最重要是能包容自己做错的事情，让自己然发出内心的最真诚的动力和美好。
又该做什么？
这点是昨天的故事给我最大的教训和启发。
之前我认为，人生很多事情并没有“对和错”，没法评判一个决定是对人生好和坏的，只要跟随着自己的内心去不断尝试就可以，不要太顾虑太多的所谓的“结果”，享受当下最重要。不用顾忌外界的评价，听从自己内心的声音。
但是，现在发现，我们还是会考虑“未来”，会权衡利弊，也会在意外界的声音。
有一条少有人走的路，那就是心灵的成熟。每个故事都是上天赐予你的礼物，每个遇到的人都是千百回的缘分。我觉得一辈子最终极的目的是，让自己灵魂的成长和成熟。
“该”与“不该”的界限，“善”与“恶”，需要很大的勇气去承担。
愿你与真知同在，愿你人生灿烂辉煌！
Yesterday's experience made me think about such a topic: who am I, what have I done, and what should I do?
Living is for a lifetime , and sometimes I feel like a good girl with the courage to embrace the world, but sometimes I feel myself very bad, fragile and small. How much of the external happiness and sadness is hidden in the heart? How to measure a person? How to live a good life?
Who am I?
Remember that there is a saying: your temperament is hiding the experience you have passed through, the books you have read and the people you have loved. At this moment, you are all of the words you have said, the things you have done, the books you have read, the person you have met…… The experienced cast current youself bit by bit, but they don't decide you in the future! People,a very creative life, is change and growth in every minute and every second.How to define yourself, completely depends on how you measure yourself!
Still believe that you have the vitality and wonderful of spring
Still believe that you have the power to embrace the world
Still believe in the love and being loved in your pure heart
Still believe that your life can bloom like a beautiful flower
What did I do?
There is an old saying in China "repentance and modesty". When you really feel that you have done something wrong, you know that it is not worthy at all.There is also a saying that "everything is the best arrangement". In fact, all things happen now because it "should"happen. There must be "cause and effect" behind all actions. It must be because of some inter initiative, It also indicates some “results” to some extent.
Reflection, understanding and forgive which is the most important thing .Forgive yourself and let yourself give out the most sincere power and beauty in your heart.
What should I do?
This is the biggest lesson and inspiration from yesterday's story.
Before, I thought that many things in life have no "right or wrong" and can't judge whether a decision is good or bad for life. As long as you keep trying with your heart, don't worry too much about the so-called "results" and enjoy the most important moment. Don't worry about the external evaluation, listen to your inner voice.
However, now I find that we will still consider the "future", weigh the false and right, and pay attention to the outside world.
There is a way that few people go, which is, the maturity of the mind. Every story is a gift for you, and every person you meet is fate.I think the ultimate goal of my life is to let my soul grow and mature.
The boundary between "should" and "shouldn't", between "live" and "evil", needs a lot of courage to bear.
May you be with true intelligence, and may your life be brilliant!
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