(Andrew is writing a letter)
Natalie, my dear…
I love you very much.
You are so beautiful and funny.
I've enjoyed all of our time together.
I remember all the fun things we did…
We loved too cook and sing funny songs.
We painted in the garden.
I learned many things from you.
You changed my life.
I want to talk to you every day…
…but it's different.
I know you have to go…
…and I'm very sad.
Remember that I love you. Natalie.
(Zlizabeth ,Andrew's wife ,walks into the room)
What are you writing ,Andrew?
Oh!I…
Well…
It's a letter to Natalie.
Oh…
Andrew, you are so dramatic!
Our daughter went to college only last week!
I know.
And I miss her so much!
I miss her too…
…but we'll visit her very soon!
Who will cook and sing with me?
Well ,I'm here.
Yes,I know.
Do you want to cook dinner with me now?
Of course.
And later, do you want to call Natalie?
Yes. Andrew.
“亲爱的娜塔莉…”
“我非常爱你”
“你又美丽又风趣”
“我很享受和你在一起的所有时光”
“我记得所有和你一起做过的有趣的事情”
“我们喜欢烹饪，喜欢唱好玩的歌”
“我们在花园里画画”
“我从你身上学到了很多”
“你改变了我的生活”
“我想每天和你在一起，说说话…”
“…但这是不可能的”
“我知道你要离开…”
“…我很伤心”
“娜塔莉，你一定要记得：我爱你”
安德鲁正坐在窗前写信，这时他的妻子：伊丽莎白走进来
“安德鲁，你在写什么？”
“呃！我…”安德鲁吞吞吐吐：“好吧”
他说：“这是给娜塔莉的一封信”
“哦…”伊丽莎白说“安德鲁，你太夸张了吧…”
“我们的女儿上周刚离开家，去上大学”
“我知道”安德鲁说“我就是十分想她”
“我也想她…”伊丽莎白安慰他“我们可以早一点去看她呀”
“谁和我一起烹饪，一起唱歌？”安德鲁很伤心
“我还在这里呀”伊丽莎白说
“我知道”安德鲁说“那么，你想现在就和我一起做晚餐吗”
“当然”
“晚餐过后，你愿意和我一起打电话给娜塔莉吗”
“好的，安德鲁”
这样的场景其实很常见，所有孩子刚离开身边出去读大学的家长，都要经历这么一段艰难的时光。我把这看成是父母的心理断奶。
最好的解决办法是：尽快适应新生活，把生活的重点从孩子身上，转移到自己身上。
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