TED21天团-预习-07-10 ways to have a

Day07-10 ways to have a better conversation

• 感谢：王秒，新生大学，TED
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单词表

单词  词性  解释
unfriend    v.  取关，解除好友
devolve v.  转移，移交
polarized   adj.    两极分化的
compromise  v.  妥协，让步
overlook    v.  忽视
hone    v.  磨练，锤炼
sustain v.  维持，支撑
coherent    adj.    连贯的，一致的
crap    n.  垃圾，废话
multitask   v.  处理多项事务
pontificate v.  自以为是
pundit  n.  有学问的人
err v.  犯错
vulnerable  adj.    脆弱的
recesses    n.  心灵深处
bound   v.  有联系；有关
aware   v.  意识
equate  v.  等同
individual  adj.    个人的
brag    v.  吹牛
condescending   adj.    居高临下的，表现优越的
paraphrase  v.  解释，换一种方法说
bolster v.  支撑，支持
intent  n.  意图，目的
ritual  n.  惯例
claim   v.  声称，断言

金句：

I want to see a show of hands.
And many of them, almost most of them, are more likely to text    their friends than they are to talk to them face to face.
If you want to get out of the conversation, get out of the conversation.
The famed therapist M. Scott Peck said that true listening requires a setting aside of oneself. 
Everyone you will ever meet knows something that you don't.
Everybody is an expert in something.Err on the side of caution. 

作业

1. 语音作业（必做）

今天主要练习强调和引用的读法（位置：4:20）

Number nine: This is not the last one, but it is the most important one. Listen. I cannot tell you how many really important people have said that listening is perhaps the most, the number one most important skill that you could develop. Buddha said, and I'm paraphrasing, "If your mouth is open, you're not learning." And Calvin Coolidge said, "No man ever listened his way out of a job."

2. 实际应用（选做）

在未来的一周里，实践演讲者提到的其中一条建议，写下你的收获和体会。

** 总目录：**

• TED21天团-预习-01-How to get better at the things you care about
• TED21天团-预习-02-5 techniques to speak any language
• TED21天团-预习-03-What I learned from 100 days of rejection
• TED21天团-预习-04-A simple way to break a bad habit
• TED21天团-预习-05-5 ways to listen better
• TED21天团-预习-06-How to gain control of your free time?
• TED21天团-预习-07-10 ways to have a better conversation
• TED21天团-预习-08-Animal tales from icy wonderlands
• TED21天团-预习-09-Are you a giver or a taker?
• TED21天团-预习-10-Forget the pecking order at work
• TED21天团-预习-11-How to make stress your friend
• TED21天团-预习-12-Your body is my canvas
• TED21天团-预习-13-Nature. Beauty. Gratitude.
• TED21天团-预习-14-Inside the mind of a master procrastinator
• TED21天团-预习-15-The surprising habits of original thinkers
• TED21天团-预习-16-the art of misdirection
• TED21天团-预习-17-Teach girls bravery, not perfection
• TED21天团-预习-18-The transformative power of classical music
• TED21天团-预习-19-The power of believing that you can improve
• TED21天团-预习-20-Falling in love is the easy part
• TED21天团-预习-21-What makes a good life?

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