Love is the driving force of self-discipline, as well as the route to freedom,happiness,and maturity. Yet, love is inanguious and hard to firgure out. I'm trying to summrize some truths about love which I contemplate in recent days.
Love is a willingness that expects satisfaction. No love is lasting without satisfaction in return. I love writing because it gives me pleasurement. Considering the hardship about true love, huge happiness in reward must be given to make it worthwhile.
If one is unwilling to love what he used to love, it's possible that he encounters dissatisfation, which, in my view, accounts for 99% unhappy marriage.
Then, why? I try to name a few:
No.1 You don't love in the right way. Believe me, love is a skill and requires practicing.
No.2 You expect too much in marriage. It's usual that Men don't give marriage the same care as women. Disappointment is unavoidable. Imagine .you are helping kids with their homework. Too much expectation leads you to lose your temper and cannot stand any small error, right. Take it easy. It's not as important as you suppose.
No.3 You idealize marriage and love. Since love is a willingness, it is prone to change. Smomeone is loving you all the time, at every moment. It's a daydream.
No.4 You change. It's natural and needn't to be shamed of.
Next time I'm frustrated in marriage, I can check these for some help.
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