When any friendship or relationship of yours suffers or strengthens, look at your deeds and realize that these also had an effect.
当你的任何一段友谊或关系有所牢固或削弱时,去审视自己的行为,并且意识到这些行为会对你的关系产生影响。
Our Prophet (salla Allah alayhi wa sallam) said, "I swear by the One in whose Hands is my soul, never do two people who love one another break that relationship except due to a sin that one of them did" [Reported by al-Bukhārī in his Adab al-Mufrad].
我们的先知(愿主福安之)曾说:“我以掌握我灵魂的安拉起誓,两个相爱的人永远都不会分开,除非他们中的一方犯下罪恶。”(布哈里在其著作《Al-Adab al-Mufrad》中传述)
This applies to spouses, family and friends. Perfecting our worship of Allah blesses us in every aspect of our life; committing sins has the opposite effect, unless we repent. And of the greatest blessings and joys of life (and, conversely, potentially the greatest pains and source of grief in life) are our spouses, families and friends.
这也同样适用于夫妻、家庭和朋友关系。完美我们对安拉的崇拜可以使我们在生活的每一个层面受到祝福。犯罪带来的影响则恰巧相反,除非我们忏悔。而我们的伴侣、家人和朋友,也是生命中最大的一种恩典和快乐(相反的,也可能是潜在的巨大痛苦或悲伤的一种来源)。
When one's relations with all of these are good, one's life is so much sweeter and easier. And when one strengthen's one's relationship with the Divine, He blesses all of those human relationships.
当一个人的所有关系都是好的,那么他的生活会更加甜蜜更加容易。当一个人加强他与真主关系时,真主会福佑他与所有人之间的关系。
May Allah allows us to use each and every incentive to strengthen our bonds with Him!
祈求安拉让我们尽己所能去加强我们与祂的联系!
原文:Yasir Qadhi/Facebook
翻译:循伊英译组
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