The amount of time during which you have being met someone for some reasons in your entire life is just a short period of time, such as your classmates, your colleagues, your bosses and so on. Every few years passed, most of these people around you will be replaced by other people.
So if you are lucky, you will meet a guy who suits you, and you will have nice days with him. But on the other hand, you have to tolerate the guy who always annoys you.
This is practical social life, it gives you opportunities to experience and learn how to deal with the relationships between people according to different categories of people.
I'm not good at this skill, I feel it's complicated and hard to learn. So every time I meet an annoying person and have to be together with him or her, I will just tolerate the situation, and say to myself, "Don't worry, the difficult time will pass, it won't last forever," and as a result, what I said always comes true.
A former co-worker, a woman with a bad temper, one of her jobs is to calculate the salaries of all the employees in our company, and I'm a software engineer, one of my jobs is to keep our OA system running successfully, we all work on our OA system. Sometimes there were errors in the OA system, she would yell at me for whatever reason (some errors are caused by her). You know, we're not in the same department, she wasn't my boss, wasn't my supervisor, she had no right to yell, besides, she couldn't work successfully without my support. This situation went on for more than 3 years. It was a bad experience.
The woman quit her job and left our company last month. Fortunately a new colleague came in, who is a beautiful and polite girl with excellent skills, she did most of the work by herself. When she needed my help, she was always polite and grateful for my help.
That is, during your entire life, you are alone, no one will be with you forever except for loneliness, therefore what you have to deal with is not the relationships with different people, but loneliness.
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