In one of China's greatest classical novels, Dream of the Red Chamber, love is presented as a state of foolishness.中国最伟大的古典小说之一，红楼梦，爱是一种愚蠢的状态
A young man falls in love with a beautiful woman who tricks and makes a fool of him.一个年轻的男人爱上了一个漂亮的捉弄了他的女人
This results in conflicting emotions of love and hate which tear him apart.
To cure him, a priest gives him a magic mirror.为了治愈他，神父给他一个魔镜
The priest tells him to look into the reverse side of the mirror, but never to look in the front side.神父让他看镜子的反面，但是绝不能看镜子的正面
When the young man looks into the mirror, he doesn't like what he sees, so he looks into the forbidden side,the front side.当这个年经人看镜子的时候，他不喜欢他看到的，因此他看了禁止的一边，前面
There he sees the lovely image of his love, who invites him into the mirror to be with her.在那里，他看到了他爱的可爱的图像，邀请他进入镜子与他一起
He does this several times until he is finally dragged away in chains.他这样做了很多次直到他最后被人用链子拖走
He dies while looking into the mirror.他在照镜子的时候死了
Perhaps the point of the story is that all such attachments should be avoided.或许这故事的重点是所有这样的依恋应该被避免
A famous French writer, Simonede Beauvoir has another point of view.著名的法国作家Simonede Beauvoir 有另一个观点
For her, love is the desire to integrate with another, like in a great friendship.根据她的，爱情是渴望与另一个人完整，像一个伟大的友谊
However, it is important what lovers not become too dependent on the other person.然而，重要的是爱人不要变得太依赖于其他人
Becoming dependent on another person can lead to boredom or power games.变得依赖另一个人会导致无聊和权利游戏
Lovers should support each other in discovering themselves and developing their potentials.情侣应该互相支持，发现自己和发展他们的潜能
In this way, romantic love can enrich the world.这样，浪漫的爱情可以丰富世界
Falling in love can be exciting and frightening.坠入爱河能使人兴奋也能使人恐惧
Maybe we lose ourselves and maybe we find ourselves. 或许我们失去我们自己，或许我们找到我们自己
Will you dare to find out?你会敢于发现吗？
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