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One
By the end of the last year, I will be 25 years old.
Sometimes, there is always an illusion（幻觉） that he is only 20 years old. He is the ignorant（懵懂的） boy who just entered the University.
However, the reality tells me that I am not the 20-year-old anymore.
At the age of 20, I like to be busy, and I always try my best to get together with the crowd for fear of being alienated（疏远的） in the public. Now, I prefer to be alone.
At the age of 20, I am eager for friendship and always try my best to make more friends, even if I know that some feelings are broken at one touch（一戳就破）. Now, I enjoy the status of making friends without climbing.
At the age of 20, I often feel low self-esteem（自尊心）, but now I am more open and tolerant to myself.
It turns out that five years have passed. The boy at the beginning has grown up and matured gradually.
He began to understand that it was a stupid thing to envy others and compare himself with others.
Because of some things, there is no comparability at all.
Two
Like your birth. Some people are born with gold keys. A lifetime of wind and water（一生顺风顺水）, there are family to pave a road of lifetime.
The houses and cars that ordinary people need to earn all their lives are as simple as breathing for them.
Maybe, you will say, the world is not fair.
But when you think about it, the world is fair. Those person who born with everything, what they enjoy, is also the hard work of their parents.
Their quiet life（岁月静好） is nothing more than that of their parents' generation who carry them ahead of time.
But the ordinary people need to fight for everything they need in this life.
I have always believed that energy is conserved（守恒的）. Every sweat（汗水） and effort you make will be rewarded in the future.
Pay little, return little; pay much, return better.
Three
Once I chatted with my friends and talked about some hearsay（传闻） I heard at school.
It is found that in the school where we are now, most of the professors and the Dean's（大学院长） children are studying abroad, and even some people do not need to take part in the national college entrance examination.
Once, a boy told me that a dean's son's monthly living expenses would be more than 100000 yuan.
At that time, I smile, maybe the living standards abroad are different from those at home.
Although the mouth is said so, the heart is still a little timid（怯懦的）.
Such fee is not affordable for any family like me.
The daughter of the a tutor, who is as old as us, studies in a famous university in Germany.
Tutor said that the teaching environment in Germany is easier than in China. Every time her daughter comes home, she seldom sees her study. Over there, if you work a little harder, you won't get worse.
Once, her daughter was interviewed by an organization. The interviewer asked her whether if she grew up in Germany.
The tutor said that her daughter was sent out for college during the college entrance examination, then, only three or four years later, she learned German very well.
The tutor praised her daughter for her talent in learning languages. What is revealed（透露） in the words is the pride of being a mother.
If it happen before, maybe I would envy it.
But now, I won't. And I firmly believe that if I am in such an environment, I will do better than her.
But now, I need to plan my future step by step.
Once time，Friends and I said, The marvellous（精彩） of the world always belongs to those who dare to fight, dare to strive，dare to find.
Four
I think everyone once envied others more or less（或多或少）.
Even if this excessive envy and in turn infinitely（无限地） belittle（贬低、轻视） themselves, it seems that they are really useless.
In comparison with others, we deny and affirm（肯定） ourselves again and again.
The inner world is broken again and again, and then carefully pieced together. In this constant negation and affirmation, we can establish our own world outlook.
This process is accompanied by depression, helplessness and inferiority（自卑）.
When we really become mature and confident, we will not constantly tangle（纠结） in the comparison with others, but more focus on our own life.
Understanding that everyone is a unique individual, everyone has their own shining place, and a person's best life state is to admit their limitations, but do not give up the space for self-development.
Be frankly and open-mindedly to yourself, firming in your chosen path, unshakable and never give up, and go straight ahead.
Just like Dunedin's saying:To strive ,to seek ,to find ,but not to yeild!
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