你可曾探讨过心理依赖问题？如果深入探讨，你会发现我们多数人都是极度孤独，内心肤浅、空虚，不知道爱为何物。因为孤独，因为匮乏，因为缺失，我们执着于某种事物，执着于家庭，依赖家庭。当妻子或丈夫转身而去，我们会心生妒忌；妒忌并非真爱，但这种家庭之爱却被社会所认可，且备受尊崇。实际上这是另一种自我防护，一种对自我内心的逃避。每一种抗拒，都会助长依赖心理，心灵一旦落入依赖，就绝不是自在的。
你的心灵需要自由，因为自由自在的心灵，具有谦恭的真髓。自在而谦恭的心灵，才能学习实相，而非抗拒实相。学习是非同寻常的事情，真正的学习并不是知识的积累，积累知识是相对容易的，因为那是从已知到已知。但真正的学习是从已知到未知——真正的智慧都是这样学来的，是不是？
——克里希那穆提《生命书：365静心日课》（The Book of Life: Daily Meditations with Krishnamurti）
A Free Mind Has Humility
Have you ever gone into the question of psychological dependence? If you go into it very deeply, you will find that most of us are terribly lonely. Most of us have such shallow, empty minds. Most of us do not know what love means. So, out of that loneliness, out of that insufficiency, out of the privation of life, we are attached to something, attached to the family; we depend upon it. And when the wife or the husband turns away from us, we are jealous. Jealousy is not love; but the love which society acknowledges in the family is made respectable. That is another form of defense, another form of escape from ourselves. So every form of resistance breeds dependence. And a mind that is dependent can never be free.
You need to be free, because you will see that a mind that is free has the essence of humility. Such a mind, which is free and therefore has humility, can learn—not a mind that resists. Learning is an extraordinary thing—to learn, not to accumulate knowledge. Accumulating knowledge is quite a different thing. What we call knowledge is comparatively easy, because that is a movement from the known to the known. But to learn is a movement from the known to the unknown—you learn only like that, do you not?
MARCH 1
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