（双语写作）家长一定要与孩子一起成长

家长一定要与孩子一起成长。

我上中学时，我妈妈是另一个学校的中学数学老师，她在教学的同时坚持函授学习，几年后以优异成绩取得文凭。

在上世纪八十年代，函授文凭还是还有作用的。但是和妈妈一起报名有几十人，都是老师，坚持到底的只有几个。

人到中年，教学，管家，学习高等教育，是非常辛苦的。

也许妈妈的行为对我有潜移默化的影响。

1995年，妈妈退休了，又到社会学校应聘，换了几个学校，一直教到六十岁。

之后还不甘心，在家里办辅导班，每天家里都有一群朝气蓬勃的初中学生。几乎教到七十岁，才歇下来。

妈妈是1960年洛南县高考理科状元，但是由于家庭成分不好，根本没有被录取的资格，考试对她只是一个烟雾弹。

1978年，国家出现好政策，妈妈才成为民办数学老师，此时她已经三十六岁，有三个孩子。

为了转成公办教师，就必须取得函授文凭。对于她的学习，校长很支持，很少让她上课，有更多时间专心学习。

由于妈妈的数学基础非常牢固，由于意志坚定，几年后几乎门门课都是满分。

记得那几年周末，妈妈没有看过电影，而是在家里做高等数学题。

大概受妈妈影响，妹妹大学毕业以后也做了初中数学老师，和妈妈的专业一模一样。

再过两年，妹妹就退休了。

我有一位中学同学，上的大学和专业与她父亲一样（陕西师范大学，历史系），并且毕业后当了一辈子语文老师，职业也和父亲一样。这样的巧合真是不多。

Parents must grow up together with their children.

When I was in middle school, my mother was a middle school math teacher in another school. She insisted on correspondence study while teaching, and a few years later, she obtained a diploma with excellent grades.

In the 1980s, correspondence diplomas still worked. But there were dozens of people who signed up with my mother,and only a few stuck to it.

People to the middle age, teaching, housekeeper, learning higher education, is very hard.

Maybe my mother's behavior has a subtle influence on me.

In 1995, my mother retired and applied for a job in a social school. She changed several schools and taught until she was 60 years old.

Afterthat, she did remedial classes at home ,help a group of vigorous junior high school students. She stop teaching almost until seventy years old.

My mother was the top scorer in science in the college entrance examination in Luonan County in 1960, but due to the poor family composition, she was not qualified to be admitted at all. The exam was just a smoke bomb for her.

In 1978, when the state had good policies, my mother became a private math teacher. At this time, she was 36 years old and had three children.

In order to become a public teacher, a correspondence diploma is required. For her study, the principal is very supportive, rarely letting her attend class and having more time to concentrate on her study.

Because my mother's math foundation is very solid, due to the firm will, a few years later, almost all the courses are full marks.