Dr.Peck remarked in his book," people lie to avoid pains". From my point of view, they are symtoms of the less of courage, the courage to face the true world.
If one cannot face the true world, he would lie. To keep his lie, he would be self-centered, manipulate others, and even do evil things. Why is he so crazy? Because he couldn't afford the pain of breaking the lies. He spare no effort to avoid pains.
Is it really painful? It is indeed uncomfortable. But greater pains will you experience if efforts are made to avoid it.
I cann't take the pain of making progress quite slowly, then I have to experience the pain of not achieving anything.
I can't accept that I'm imperfect, then I have to undergo repeatedly self-blaming and long-term inferiority. That's painful.
It seems that I'm doing better now, though I still cann't figure out how it happens. I try to trace it but give it up. Maybe it's the time, which is long enough for me to strengthen myself little by little, day by day, year in year out.
Let me befriend time.
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