大师游戏II 098～放轻松

今天是大师游戏第98天星期二，继续读Treya的故事。

In the past, while Treya had always depended on me to keep up a certain humor about the situation, she sometimes found my humor inappropriate. But Chris made me look anemic by comparison. There
was nothing she wouldn'tmake fun of, there was nothing sacred, nothing off-limits, nothing that couldn't be laughed at. And this, if anything,was what Treya and I took away from crazy Chris Habib: lighten up,
kids. It's all a joke anyway.

人生无处不幽默，幽默感的背后是一个人对待人生的态度，人生为什么不能多一点轻松多开一些玩笑呢？

Running along the beach, now in the dimmer twilight and on my home stretch returning to the motel, I thought of how I want myself to change, to change even more. I want to hold things more lightly, not see everything as so very, very serious. I want to laugh more and play more and not think of things as always in crisis. I want to take the pressure off of myself, and off of others. To hold life lightly, my new motto.Fourth treatment. "A lot of people don't want to learn to heal themselves," she
says. "They want someone else to do it, to turn it over to someone else. Sometimes I have to be a love object to them too.

Treya最想要的改变卸下身上不必要的压力，轻松地面对接下来的人生，她的座右铭变成了To hold life lightly

是啊，有时候我们把一些事情看得太严肃了，有时候我们把一些事情抓得太紧了，有时候我们把一些事情看得太悲观了，有时候我们让自己背上了过多的压力。。。其实很多时候并没有必要，何不放松下来，更轻快地前进。