你有没有一个瞬间，突然感觉自己应该长大、不能再继续任性了？每个人的成长都是有一个阶段的，我也不例外。每当想起发生在少年时的那件事，我就觉得很不可思议！
我14岁时，特别叛逆，经常和我妈妈吵架。有一天，我一个人到野地里去玩儿，看见一只刚离巢的小鸟，它好像和鸟妈妈走失了，我当时觉得它很可怜，就把它带回了家，还给了它很多好吃的——尽管它一口也没吃，我还是幻想着它后面开心的时候应该就会吃了。可是还没等到小鸟动嘴吃东西，就被我妈妈发现了，妈妈严厉地呵斥我多管闲事，还毫不留情地把小鸟放归了野地。我当时非常生气，觉得妈妈是一个毫无怜悯之心的人，我甚至还想:我绝对是世界上最倒霉的人，摊上了这么一个坏妈妈。
于是我就决定我以后都不会再理会我妈妈，并在那一天拒绝吃饭。等到晚上，我爸爸工作回来了，妈妈就跟爸爸说我一天都为了一只鸟的事儿和她赌气，不给好脸色还不吃饭。我原以为爸爸会大发雷霆教训我，没想到爸爸二话不说就去做饭，完了还叫我去吃饭。一天没吃饭的我仿佛沙漠里快要渴死的小草，遇到期盼已久的甘霖！但是由于抹不开面子，我就端着饭，一个人跑到房屋外面去大口大口地吃起来。后来，爸爸以为我已经端着碗去奶奶家了，因为奶奶家就离我家几分钟的距离。于是我就听见爸爸跟妈妈说:“别生气了，这个孩子本性是不坏的，她喜欢跟你吵架，是因为她现在三观都还在养成中，很不稳定，你就需要慢慢地引导她上正轨，没办法的，一颗没有感情的树木要养成都要十年，更何况是要培养一个人。所以人家都说‘百年树人’！”妈妈说:“其实我也没生气，只是她赌气不吃饭我拿她没办法，她现在很抵触我，我做什么她都觉得是错的，所以你可能要多花心思教育引导她。”
听了爸爸妈妈的对话后，我感觉自己所有的不良情绪瞬间烟消云散，我所感受到的只有羞愧，我突然自己原来是这么不懂事，真的很不应该。于是从那一刻起，我就在心里决定:我以后一定要克制自己的情绪，做一个懂事的孩子。多年后，我发现:我真的是在那一个瞬间就长大了！
Everyone's growth has a stage, so do I.
When I was 14, I was very rebellious and often quarreled with my mother. One day, I played alone in the field, seeing a bird just left the nest, who seemed to be lost with its mother, I brought it back home and gave it a lot of delicious food. Although it didn't eat a bite, I still fantasized that it would eat some when it feels happy. But before the bird moved its mouth to eat, it was found by my mother. She berated me for meddling and mercilessly released the bird into the wild. I was very angry, I even thought: I am definitely the most unlucky person in the world, have such a bad mother.
I decided that I would never listen to her again and refused to eat her food. When my father came back in the Evening, my mother told him that I had been angry with her for a bird all day, and didn't eat any food. I thought my father would be angry and punish me. What I didn't expect is that my father just went to cook for me without saying a word. When I got the meal,I felt I just like the thirst grass who is about to die in the desert, suddenly meet the long-awaited rain!
Later, I heard my dad said to my mom,"Don't be angry, this child's nature is not bad, she likes to quarrel with you, just because she is still in the process of developing views of the world, you need to slowly guide her on the right track. It takes ten years to cultivate a tree without feelings, let alone to cultivate a person. That's why people say, 'Cultivate people in a century'!" My mother said: "In fact, I am not angry, she is now very resistant to me, what I do she thinks is wrong, so you may have to spend more attention to educate and guide her."
After listening to their dialogue, all I felt was shame. So from that moment on, I decided in my heart: I must restrain my emotions in the future to be an understanding child. Years later, I found that I really grew up in that moment!
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