亲爱的小伙伴们,大家好。我想问一下,你有孩子吗?你有关注过你的亲戚朋友的孩子或者身边的孩子,他们有文字阅读吗?
他们每天文字阅读的时间大概是多长?书中自有黄金屋、书中自有颜如玉,我们都希望每个孩子从小建立文字阅读的习惯,尤其在手机、平板、电视发达的时代,怎么引导孩子去进行文字阅读呢?
最近我的大女儿上小学了,我也希望她能够多多进行文字阅读,因此我对这个事情做了研究。
首先,阅读越早启蒙越好,每个刚出生的孩子就是一张白纸。如果能在孩子几个月开始到幼儿园认识字之前,建立良好的阅读习惯,让孩子从小就发现书本的美好。在这里要说一下,文字阅读带来的感受是别的信息获取方式代替不了的,比如我们看电视看视频听音频都可以获取信息,但是文字阅读可以让人产生大量的想象和不同体验。父母这时就不能偷懒,每天至少安排半小时的阅读时间,他们就会爱上讲故事,爱上书本。这一点,我的两个孩子很明显,如果心情不好,哭闹,我说讲故事,一般就能安静并享受阅读的快乐了。
第二,挖掘孩子的兴趣。当然很多人也许会说,那我小孩现在上小学了,以前没有建立阅读的习惯怎么办?其实学好要三年,学坏只要三天。我的女儿上小学后,因为我不在身边,没人给她讲故事了,她的阅读量也下来了。那怎么办?留意孩子感兴趣的东西,上上周,我发现了慈云图书馆可以借书,我让小特自己选,她选了有恐龙的、动物的、公主的,我说够了,最后她发现了一本《脑筋急转弯》,特别激动,回到家的晚上,迫不及待地自己看了起来,这让我很开心,也有了启发。兴趣就是最好的老师,她喜欢的书,很快并且很主动就能读完了。我记得以前在一个育儿群里看到有家长问,说孩子看科幻的书,看考古的书,很偏门的书,问这样好不好,担心被带偏。我当时就心想,孩子肯读书,就是好事,你担心带偏,你自己也去看就好了。
第三,营造阅读的氛围。父母的带头作用很重要,你天天拿着手机却让孩子去读书,这是比较难的。我小的时候,印象中的父亲,闲下来的时候就看书,我觉得这个对我影响很大。那如果你不喜欢看书,可以去给她寻找偶像,比如我女儿她就很喜欢神探麦克狐,那我就经常提醒她,如果不阅读,就没法像麦克狐一样厉害了,因为神探肯定是读了大量的书,才有了生物、地理、数学、化学等各科的知识的,这个是很重要的。另外,对于小一点的孩子,我们在生活中可以在电梯里、在商场里给孩子读广告标语甚至一起对着歌词学唱歌,增加孩子对语言文字的兴趣,感受懂得更多带来的快乐和成就感。
送孩子黄金万两,不如让他学会与书为友,引导孩子阅读,不仅能在学习上取得高分,而是在整个人生大考中给了他一把金钥匙。
How to guide children to read
Hello, my dear friends.Do you have any children? Have you ever paid attention to the children around you, and they read?
How much time do they spend reading every day? The book has its own golden house, the book has its own jade, we all hope that every child to establish the habit of reading, especially the mobile phones, tablets, TV developed , how to guide children to read?
Recently, my daughter entered primary school, and I wanted her to read more, so I did some research on the matter.
First of all, the earlier reading is initiated, the better. Every newborn child is a blank SLATE. If you can establish good reading habits before the child begins to know words in kindergarten in a few months, let the child discover the benefit of books from an early age. Here it should be said that the feelings brought by text reading can not be replaced by other information acquisition methods, such as watch TV, watch video and listen to audio can get information, but text reading can make people produce a lot of imagination and different experiences. Parents can't be lazy at this time, arrange at least half an hour of reading time every day, they will fall in love with stories, love books. This, my two children are very obvious, if they were not happy , crying, I say to tell a story, generally can be quiet and enjoy the joy of reading.
Second, tap the child's interest. Of course, many people may say, then my child is now in primary school, what if he did not establish the habit of reading before? In fact, it takes three years to learn well, but only three days to learn bad. When my daughter went to elementary school, no one read to her anymore because I wasn't around, and her reading dropped. What then? Pay attention to what children are interested in, last week, I found the Ciyun Library can borrow books, I let my daughter choose books by herself, she chose dinosaurs, animals, princesses, I said enough, and finally she found a "Brain teasers", especially excited, when we back home at night, she can not wait to read it, which makes me very happy, but also inspired me. Interest is the best teacher, she likes the book, read it quickly and very active. before, mother saying that children read science fiction books, read archaeological books, very biased books, ask whether it is good, worried about being biased. I thought at that time, the child is willing to read, it is a good thing, you worry about bias, you also go to see it.
Third, create an atmosphere for reading. The lead role of parents is very important, you hold the mobile phone every day but let the child to read, this is more difficult. When I was young, I remember my father reading books in his spare time, which I think had a great influence on me. If you don't like reading, you can go to find her idols, such as my daughter, she likes detective Mike Fox, then I often remind her that if you don't read, you can't be as powerful as Mike Fox, because the detective must have read a lot of books, biology, geography, mathematics, chemistry and other subjects of knowledge, this is very important. In addition, for younger children, we can read advertising slogans to children in the elevator, in the mall and even learn to sing together to the lyrics, increase children's interest in language and feel the happiness and sense of accomplishment brought by knowing more.
To send a child a thousand gold, it is better to let him learn to be friends with books, guide children to read, not only to get high scores in learning, but to give him a golden key in the whole life. I hope all children find their treasure in reading.
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